to play on this next conversation as a working mother. i want to get to the third ultimatum. let me bring in andrew shoo, the co-founder of cafe media, this hugely popular online community for parents. and i have to say this as well. of course you recognize him from his role as billy cable on melrose place. how often do you get that? a fair amount. beginning with, you have been such a champion of work/life balance, between you and your lovely wife amy you have five kids. yes. you re such an advocate for that sort of balance. but for certain jobs it doesn t always apply. this is a job that s all in. if you look at the approval rating of congress, if you don t have a leader who can bring their party together, then hopefully maybe bring the country together, and you re not there every second doing the job that s necessary, i feel like it s a disservice to his kids.