everything is different. i put him in counseling. i have no choice. because i don t know what s going on in his head. i don t know what he s thinking. are we doing enough to address trauma in this city? no. dr. brad stobach of the university of chicago has spent more than 35 years treating trauma in kids. there is a great need for all of us to say they are so young it didn t really effect them. it does affect them. even very, very young children who don t have a conscious memory that they can put into words of something they ve been through, it s in there and it does affect them. they often times feel like they are going crazy because they are having these reactions in their bodies that are like they re back there in that situation, and they don t necessarily put