that is when things started getting scary. scary because erwin, detectives learned, had started doing things that pointed to an obsession with deede, and how did they know that? in one of those only in a small town coincidences, deede s son, mike, lived just down the road of duties new brochure and. one night he was sitting in his living room when he saw familiar car drive by, inside, was erwin. as the evening went on he continued to drive by the house. did you call your mom and say, by the way, erwin is driving around the house while you re with bobby lowell? no, i didn t between two together. the very next day just ten days before her murder, deede would call her friend cindy, in a state of panic. she was crying hysterically. she said that she was in the shower, the erwin came into the house without her knowing, pulled her out of the shower
erwin back into her life, to help care for her and her dogs. that request had apparently been misinterpreted by erwin, we know he started wearing his wedding ring again. erwin wanted back into her life, and it sounds to me like on some level she sort of appreciated that part of him, that adored her and wanted to take care of her. even though it is somebody that you re not gonna be with anymore? yes. do you think she made that point clear enough to him? no. she was too nice? always too nice, and very trusting. and that may be why investigators thought erwin seemed surprise, when just two weeks before deede s murder, he gained access to her murder and found emails referring to a relationship with a new man. bobby lowell. i think it really threw him for a loop when he found out that my mom, you know, had met somebody else.