divorce, she claimed he tried to choke her. she said he just looked like a crazed animal, and i thought he was going to kill me. and not too long after that she had said to me if anything ever happens to me, you know where to look. dave said that choking thing just never happened. that he was never violent with her. i ve never choked anybody. things settled down eventually. though there was always some dispute, anded things conrad says he heard his dad say about his mom, awful. things like she needs a taste of her own medicine. she s going to get hers. she s going get what she has coming to her. in fact, the very night he discovered debbie had vanished conrad told police his dad might have done this. i anything that would disqualify him from being able to carry that out.