impossible position for black women to be good mothers. you had no room to negotiator navigate their own humanity. speed up to alexandria mrsa and so you have chirlane mccray and michelle obama and alexandria mersa. black women who are protecting their children in the face of violence are being incarcerated at rapid amounts and there s a failure or inability for black women to be good mothers even in the face of violence. here we have an admission of feeling guilt, of feeling that she wanted to work. it s small in comparison to what we re talking about and she s still being shamed so i think it s impossible for black women to be considered good mothers. that s why michelle obama had to be mom in chief. i appreciate the point about we started with reparations but i appreciate the point in part about coming back to slavery because it is that reality that the first gift of an enslaved woman to her child was enslavement. because you didn t take the