Is not one piece of candy that i like. It is quinn, maclin and ke len candy because i was trying to get rid of it. That is bills. But, all sour. There is not one piece of chocolate, all sour. Nothing i like. Very disappointed. I wanted to get that off my chest. Say it aint so could Holiday Gifts be on the back burn they are year . Why a new report says many of us are going to blow off giving Christmas Gifts, you know, to friends. Plus is there a garment bag or hot new fashion trend. This dress is for sale wait until you see price tag witt and im in the talking about dry cleaning this is the dress i will make a turning think year. So many will be out there for thanksgiving but really not confident when it comes to how we roast our bird and how we do it for thanksgiving. It stresses people out. It does. Some people like to go have them cook them down to the big oven, cash as, someone else does it and you know you will not screw it up. Is what the point. Stressful and how do we get around that stress. Relief stress of cooking the turkey. Okay. Lets get into it, because you have been responding on twitter. So this guy, he wants to ask his girlfriend to lose weight. They are not married yet. So he asked people on social media yesterday, how you should do it. Should he do it. This is his Facebook Post he writes at first i told myself i could get pennsylvania it. Lets just see how it goes. We had excellent dates. Everything else about her was exactly what i wanted. I didnt want to ruin something good for that one little reason but now it has been one and a half years. I feel horrible. I just cant get past it. I feel like a bad person being bothered by it. I cant bring myself to tell her. Were going to couples therapy next week. The question is, is there any right way to ask someone to lose weight for you. Lose weight for you. Lets get into some of these responses. So sean says you are concerned about her Health Approach from it that angle. You are concerned about her appearance you should probably just stay single. I would agree with that. I dont think it is a health issue. He just wants her to lose pound toss look better to him. I love everything about you , but you. Yes. Katie says obviously you need to move on and let her be loved by someone who does not need her to change. I like her. Nope, sorry you are not attracted to her then you are not track. Being nice by date something one you are not 100 percent into will never work. So that is that guys dilemma. I want to make a broader question. Lets say you are married, or in a really tight relationship with someone you are not married yet. Sit ever okay to say, honey, do you mind losing some weight if they could, they would have. If you could have, you would have done it already. No one can do it for somebody else they have to do it for themselves. There is people we see, actually men, who decided for themselves and for their health and families to lose weight and they have who 100 pound but they had to decide themselves. You cant do it because someone says i will love you more. I like that, quincy, would you ever bring this up with your wife. Yes. Wow. Hold on let me finish this guy is an idiot, number one. Number two, i think you have but you dont say hey, you need to lose weight. I went up, down, it is life. But i think you need to implement, like a Healthy Lifestyle for yourself and hopefully your partner wants to do it. Like karen said you just cant say you need to lose weight. It is like who are you, idiot, you dont do that. Yeah, dufuss. Because you do not bring it up. If you are in a relationship with somebody, it is a long hill, long journey, it is a marathon not a sprint. Sometimes you may be super healthy. Sometimes she may be super healthy. Sometimes you may be unhealthy together. But come on you just dont come and say you need to lose weight because i demand you too. Someone on twitter says best thing is lets put it out there together. Yes, that is cool, lets work out together. You are not always going to be perfect. If you are super perfect maybe you need to find another super perfect person. People are not perfect. Women have kid. Women go up and down. Sometimes you may stress out, sometimes you you may drink a rot, gain weight you just cant go to your partner and say you will lose weight. You are not perfect. That i is thing about relationships. This is what you learn in relationships you are not perfect. Sometime you may not be ideal sometime she may not be ideal. If you Say Something you just make them feel worse. If you are feeling bad and eat youre motions it makes you feel horrible. It will not be horrible. Lets go grab a bite and talk about that. Yes. Lets just work out, lot. Dont do that. Implement certain things. Like hey, brown rice instead of the white, water instead of juice or soda. You know, implement. You cannot say it. You know how to do it, you go too fast. Alex, go. On twitter, maggie, she says, it is okay to inform your significant other of their weight but it is only the introduction of the conversation. That is the key. Well, yeah how do put it. How do you put it you say i will start working out. Yesy will run. Hey, look at you, because what happens is she will say, okay, you dont like me i will get to the trainer. She will start dating the trainer. Ore can you get karen some water. You are coughing about the jayz thing. Were giving out jayz ticket every day on the q. You have to watch, to win, give out, secret code word and then go to fox 29. Com q tickets and you get the tickets courtesy from our friends at live nation. 12 30 a. M. Until november 27th im excited about it. That is big. He is coming to town december 1st. December 1st. Lou at beyonce shes super thin. Sometimes, jayz has been a little bigger. Maybe you need to eat healthier. Not a problem. Jayz tickets today at noon. Lets put up a picture of this trash bag that is being sold as high fashion. We have all, we have all have them in our houses right now. Cleaning space, dry cleaning for the love of god it is a dry cleaning bag. So mow sheen owe is a high end designer, they have, created this trash inspired cardboard bag close. I called it an italian design. Yes. He has been around forever. Yes. Same deed. It is meant to be warn over another garment as you can see right there. New before we tell you the price of this stupid thing, i got one. I went out and got one of these dresses. It is not a knock off. It is a knock off. It is from, the bourse collection, the bores cleaner direction down here on fourth okay. So what do you think bit. Do you like it. That is supposed to be a dress. Yes. Yes. All right. So dee the intern who has been so sweet. I dont know where she went. Shes right over there. Hi there, dee. We volunteered you while were you out getting coffee for us. Well, i dit. I volunteered to you put this on. Okay. Yes. You have to wear it, put it over your head. We have cut some slits in your bag here for your arm. They are a choking hazard for Young Children so dont try this at home. This is not a childs garment thinks for sophisticated ladies. People that can afford it. Good luck with that. Go back to the green room and change into that, yeah. Did you say how much the one cost by fancy pants designer. Im getting ready to he is building up. 700. You know what is pathetic, somebody will buy that. Im sure. It is made of thicker vinyl because they are trying to be ironic but that might be good for like a rain coat if you are wearing it overtop that would be kind of funny. Kind of cute. But not for 700. If you do take it to the cleaners do they put that in the exact same bag so you have double the dress. They would be confused, cleaner is like wait what . Which is dress, which is the bag. I would take those bags off when i get my clean cleaning bag because they say you are not supposed to take my clothes in there. We dont use those bags they use giant green bags because they are more environmentally friendly. They go in within giant green bag. How much money, if any, would you be willing to loan a friend . Philadelphia native will smith gave his friend, five milliondollar. You know we have been talking about tyreese and what he has been going through. Custody battle with his attorney. He has a lot of attorney fees. He came out and said will and jada smith gave him five milliondollar, to keep him afloat. Wow. He is racking up 13 you this dollars a month in legal fees for custody battle over his 10 yearold daughter. In his powe he said only stipulation from will and jada was to stay off social media. We showed this where he was crying, talking about what was going on. In the pictures he showed the phone and he was on the phone with jada and will for like 39 minutes, a long conversation they had. Well, yeah, his crying jag on instagram, alarmed a lot of people. Tears were running down his face. Shooting it himself. Five milliondollar. Now, it is all, i have given three people in my life money. And you cannot think of them. Go ahead. Have you . Yes. You just cant remember. No, i was going to say their names. You are editing. Just give me title. The title, who are they girlfriend. It was a coworker, Production Assistant in kansas city. She had just gotten married and they were struggling to get started in life. Then the husband of a former collogue. He was going through strive. Oh, a friend of mine who used to be a trainer and still is in los angeles. He was going through a horrible divorce and he was down to his last dime. Did you expect any money back. I never expected the money back from the first person she gave me half the money back. Last person the trainer, he paid me all the way back, and i knew he would. The guy in the middle that i gave the most, biggest amount of money too i never would see it and i never heard from him again. But i saw him in a bar, about a week later buying everybody drinks. No. I was livid. Yes. Livid. 9 12 now. Fighting with your spouse, did you know, it is a good thing to fight. We have the best, yeah, we fight in front of your kid. It goodies for them. That is good. If you fight in front of your kid, it is a good thing. It comes with the caveat. Well, the way you do it. But teaching them to have healthy disagreements and discussions. One of the psychologists who wrote a column for New York Times saying that the right kind of fighting helps kid to think independently. So this professor from wharton , which is in our area, says that when parents disagree with each other kid learn to think for themselves and they need to to discover that no authority has a monopoly on the truth. It is fighting fair, good to debate in front of them. I agree with this person. His name is adam grant. Would i like to get him on the phone and maybe do a segment with him later this week or next week. Guy from wharton we should have in. Part of that is the kennedy like thing where you sit around the dinner table. We used to have to defend your argument. Case, support it. What you learn in debate club. When are right or wrong give a good argument. That is great. Try to convince me. That is not called fighting it is not okay to fight in front of your kid, it is have a healthy debate to do in front of your kid. You teach them how to make a point. You did a power point presentation one time. Yes. Not after a fight. Trying to win an argument that you wanted that your parents didnt want. It was in the like a fight. It was a files where you wanted something and they didnt want to you switch schools. I wanted to switch schools. They wanted to teach me how to make presentations. It is a little different. My parents have been married for more than 30 years. I have seen them have disagreements. My dad says i said is what the secret just be willing to apologize, lot. But it helps because my parents tell me, if you havent seen a successful relationship it is harder to create that for yourself. You have not seen what it looks like. I wish i had this. We didnt say much of anything in the dinner table. I never heard my parents fight they took it to the bedroom or something. I dont know where they dit. Out in the backy never heard details but they do the same thing. I knew if they were discussing something and they come back and everything was fine. They resolved it. It is all good. It is possible. Would i like to see the process of how they got there a lot of it is easier about the issues. If we were discuss, one of my parent is a republican, one is a democrat. At the dinner table it is live ly. We would have friends over. They were fun. We would have wine, discuss offer whatever. It depend if you are discussing an issue as opposed to infidelity which you dont need to see that kind of a thing. My mom, they were opposite Political Parties but they never argued about that. It led to no conversation at the dinner table. So to this day, i have five siblings i have never had a fight with any of them. Never,. Never had an argument. Never. It goes were being a sibling. Never. I missed out on it. You said at dinner and didnt talk. You talk about real ordinary stuff. Baseball. How was your day. How was your day crap. That is still talking though. This is so far back in the day my dad smoked at the dinner table, paul malls four packs a day. Wed all go do that thing do you, dad. And he would get the cigarette down to a little bit and take tonight to his month and still lit. Then his big finish he would take an orange and feel it all the way around and it, the rhi ne wouldnt break so it looks like it was still whole. You wonder why i am the way i am. Michael eugene. I love this, this is true, that a lot of news 2017 are not going to go out and spend a lot of money on Christmas Gifts or coworkers and friend as stuff like. That one in eight americans dont plan to spend a dime this holiday season, except for, you know, really close people like your children. So credit card. Com also found that compared to men women are planning to be the cheapest this year. Yes. 40 percent spending less than 50 on their most pricey present. Is what new. As for the men guy gift givers they were mess likely to splurge on their significant other, they had plans, according to this to shell out 100 or more on one gift. They splurge and women dont. Because men buy one gift, stop it. Men buy one gift, and women buy. True, it is big. Every other gift for, the help of the santa but for everybody that is friends, children, and then hairdresser , powe man and all of the people you have to tip. Men buy one gift for one person that they are dating, the person they are dating. You are just bitter. When i was married, my wife would buy everything. Yes. All of the pollyannas and everything in your whole family joy would buy. I would buy joy a gift. Yes. He was, sickle, and whoever he was dating, she would be the one getting the gifts. There was one particular gift because she bought the best gifts. They broke up one christmas. We started a chance, bring, them back. Ys were like horribl quite lovely. Yes. That is a good point. Dating somebod m children loved t this woman would give. I was me it was just get something good. She would go over board to try to please them so they like her and then, you know. I think this woman just had good taste. Yes. She just knew. So, you will spend money. Is dee the intern ready to show off her trash bag. No, dry cleaning bag. Yes. All right, dee, intern to the stars, this is a 700dollar dress designer dress that looks like a dry cleaning bag. Yes. Because it probably is a dry cleaning bag. 700. It is heavier material. It is more intense. All right, dee. Okay. Strut it oath cat walk. My gosh, it is all of the rage at eagles game. Walk closer to the green screen if you can and backup as far as you can. We are suckers arent we. Did you buy it. We bought it. No, i got it for free at the bourse. Is this all you need to do. I do think it is good idea for outdoor sporting events instead of the dry cleaning bag. You can still see your eagles shirt and whatever were you wearing underneath. Do that fashion segment in the rain there is your solution. The key here is that if i have a store and little heavier plastic, it is 700. I wouldnt buy that. Im saying would i take free one in my closet to the dry cleaners. Dee, lou good in anything. Shes working it. You made that look. Yeah. Shes so hot you can put a dry cleaning bag on her. Thanks, dee. We told you yesterday that kate upton did go ahead and get married to pitcher Justin Verlander. Do you want to see some pictures. Yes, do you. You know it was fabulous. Yes, he wore that. No. Oh, no. They got married, in hello, peco. Hi. Can you help me save on my energy bill . Old appliances. Like a hot water heater . Its around here somewhere. Nope. Nope. What is this thing . Sir, have you looked in the basement . Huh. Oh, yeah. No wonder. It was hidden behind all of my free weights. If youre not an expert, peco can help. We have lots of ways to help you save energy and money. Peco. The future is on. All right. Lets get into something silly , wedding pictures of the kate upton and Justin Verland er, he put them on instagram. I feel so lucky i got to marry my best friend. Oh, barf. Thanks for making this weekend so much fun and magical. They have an italian feel to them. Christ san thumb. There is an italian feel because they are in tuscany that is why im appreciating them. Dont snap at me, karen. And, it is, to me, limited too let me find it, you know, the fact that a lot of people are giving them, because you missed your, parade. World series parade. He said happy wife, happy life what an amazing beginning to the journey together. I thought he was like, we skipped out on the parade but he is right. It last time he won world series. You only lived there about eight weeks of his life. He went to italy to marry kate upton. I think he made right decision i was admiring her dress. Shes a beautiful, sexy woman. It was demure. High neck. It was all the way up. I like that. Yes. It was classy, elegant. Im not into the racey wedding dresses where tattoos are all showing and everything yeah. I think bride are beautiful all kinds of ways. Well, it is, it is, well, you know, it is a wedding dress, it is white. Purity, innocent. It was interesting to go see what she would do. Purity, innocent, virginity , that is why we wear white. Yes. You are talking about the color but youre talking about the cut. Super low cut. Yes. And, and, tattoo. Listen people with tattoos will come for you. I love tattoo. Sometime, you know. Yeah, that is good. Let me show you another one they have them. Leave me alone. Yes. Out there, outside of the station. Let me show you another dress of the woman very covered up, and, taken by this , very interesting lay it on me. Woman in the tuxedo who happens to be working in government. Her name is hope hicks. It is beautiful. That is one good looking woman. Isnt she like the communications chief, director yes. White House Communications director. Yes. So, shes getting a lot of attention for wearing tuxedo which you think of it being a manoout s look