Subscribe When you subscribe we will use the information you provide to send you these newsletters. Your information will be used in accordance with ourPrivacy Notice. Thank you for subscribingWe have more newslettersShow meSee ourprivacy notice A grief-stricken mum believes her security guard husband was 'fobbed off' by mental health services before he was found dead. Debbie Oakes has spoken out following the death of 'much-loved' Gary who had made two attempts on his life in the weeks leading up to the tragedy. On one occasion he tried to hang himself and on another he took an overdose. But despite his desperate pleas for help, Debbie says Gary - known as Gaz- was not admitted to Harplands Hospital even though he was a 'danger to himself'.