Patrizia Rizzo, SEO Reporter Updated: 18 Jan 2021, 9:52 Patrizia Rizzo, SEO Reporter MUSICIAN Phil Spector exchanged vows three times and had five children throughout his lifetime. 6 Who were Phil Spector's ex-wives? Phil Spector, 81, was first married to Annette Merar, a lead vocalist of the Spectors Three. The band was formed and produced by Spector in the 1960’s. During his marriage, he was allegedly having an affair with a woman named Veronica Bennett, later known as Ronnie Spector. Bennett was the lead singer of The Ronettes, another group Spector oversaw and produced. 6 Spector divorced Merar in 1966 and married Bennett in 1968. They adopted three children together, Donté Phillip and twins Louis Phillip and Gary Phillip.