And she plays dollys mother . Yes, when dolly was 8yearold girl. And look no further than the hgtv chip and joehanna gaines. The dyi thing. And if you are looking for a dish, we have one over there. Look at how beautiful she is. And looking so festive, joy philbin. In the season, i drag out the red dress. You are so teeny that is incredible. Well, she work ss at it. And i have to work at it, and i dont look so teeny standing next to you. How tall are you . And the organization yes and joy and frank were at our house about a week before frank passed away. And that is a very memorable day that day. And we made a lot of memories over the 30 years, didnt we, honey . Yes, and it is a beautiful book. And a new baby name for kim and kayne. And i i know that you have been wait waiting for it, but we will share it with you anyway. It is it is a. It is a. That mewusic is going to be playing every time somebody says the babys name. Do you like it . They are creative people, and it is a creative name, and parents name their children of no. It is a funny one. It is a no. And it is a funny one, and ri will tell you in the commercial break, and it is unplooeable, but it is the child that has to live with their name the whole life and you should think about that as well. And remember, are regis used to say, kote an cassidy, what is it a freaking wild west show. He used it in every show. Yes. And saint. Saints initials will be s. W. And there is all kinds of titles about naming north and s. W. It is not hard to know who is going to be the favorite in that family, north or saint. And now, some throw bax on instagram. Yes. Its just happy hanukkah. Happy hanukkah happy hanukkah to you its just ap pi hahna happy hanukkah oh, my gosh, it looks just like amy in that po i have. Yes. She is still with that beautiful face. And now, here is what happened, people in one Office Building across the street posted a message that said hello from the other side. So they responded with this post. I must have called a thousand times. And now a Different Office to tell you im sorry. And then they posted for everything that ive done. How long is the song, because this could go on for a long time. And isnt that amazing. I have not heard the whole song yet. You havent and how do you communicate with angry people, hoe d. A. . And the holidays can bring out the best and the worst in people. And so when you hear somebody who is being irrationally angry and what is your response, like someone on the street or nearby. Give us an example of where you were . I go to this cheap place that has cheap massages for. All shower curtains all around. And i was in there, and the massages are great. And so. I was there with my face in the doughnut. Which one . That one. And the m that he walked in was angry because the room that he wanted and they are not rooms, but shower curtained area. And why arent we doing mine over here. And he said, you people are stupid stupid, first you thought that i was to be here tomorrow, and it is today and you feel stewupid. You are all stupid. And you know when you could peel the jugular vein. And you know when you are close, but you were getting steamed. Yes, and it ruined my 50 massage. And you know when you give somebody the stink eye and you think that it works but it doesnt. And what about somebody who walks in and starts to belittle somebody so abrasively and doesnt care one iota what you you just would time. Com says you have to remind yourself that people are having a bad day. Unless its chronic and thats the way they see the world and the way they should feel entitled. Im mad because i didnt say anything. Why didnt i . Because i dont say things. The older i get the more i speak. Really . Yeah. But you always you always speak. How about you, joy. I do, but i didnt always. Its not my place. If somebody is really, really being rude. Do you get involved . You know what . Im afraid now because what you see and stories you read about people that just pull out a gun and shoot you if they dont like what youre saying. Thank you for that, joy. Thank you. Thats so good. Anyway, dont judge. She is fun at cocktail parties, ive got to tell you. She is a million laughs at cocktail parties. Im just kidding. Joy, youre right. Youre right. Lets not go further down the path, right. Happy, happy, happy. This will make you feel good. Did you know this . That a donkey could smile . Is thissed about the john stamos picture . No. You didnt get the right one for that apparently. This donkey was rescued from the floodwaters in ireland this week, and we decided to zoom in to find out can we get with can we zoom in. I think the woman is smiling. Oh, it is. His eyes are smiling and his little oh. Anyway, it was rescued and the rescuer posted on facebook so my they named him mike. Mike . Well, it was after one ever his rescuers. I dont think thats mike in the picture. You never know. Cant show the stamos picture . You should check it out. I mean, its been everywhere. We have special rules for our show. We cant show porn on our show. John stamos. You have to pay for it. Weve been looking for regis all over our studio. I dont know if you know this but weve named our elf on the shelf regis. No, i didnt. Where is the elf . We never know where hes going to find him. Kristine found him. Oh, we have well do this first. One thing at a material. Dont rush us. Okay. Set this picture of her dog echo and ember spotting regis. Where was he . He was on the clean x box. In the Christmas Tree. We never know where she. Keep your eyes peeled. Apparently at last minute we paid 50 and we got the john stamos picture. Okay. But were still not going to let you see the whole come on. You know what. Dont even the ribbon should be up and down. If youre trying to hide that part of it, the plummer part. Okay. Well, we want our 50 back because that was not the point is he has a very paper magazine who did the that kim its called Kim Kardashian holding the cocktail and martini on her rear end. Thats paper magazine. I want to see how we fuzzed out kim ks. Well compare the two. Coming up, its not you, its me. What your man really thinks and means by that when our guys tell all. And then its hello dolly for Country Music superstar jennifer nettles. The grammy winner does something shes never done before, and she will tell us all about it right after this. Shes adorable. Love. All milk milk milk milk milk okay funs over. Aw. Aw. Thirsty . They said it would make me cool. They dont sound cool to me. Guess not. You got to stick up for yourself, like with the name your price tool. People tell us their budget, not the other way around. Arent you lactose intolerant . With ingredients like roasted hazelnuts and cocoa, theres a whole lot of happy in every jar of nutella. Drama . Sometimes i like to push it. New push up drama mascara from Maybelline New York our unique cup shaped bristles. Cup and coat. For volume so lifted. Its our most dramatic, pushed up lashes. Maybellines push up drama make it happen. Jennifer nettles is one of the biggest Country Music stars in the world and one half of the grammy Award Winning due ore sugarland. And is also a successful solo artist who saw her debut album go all the way to numero uno. And shes making her acting tv special of Dolly Partons coat of many colors. Jennifer plays young followys mom. Hi. Hello. Good morning. I love being here. We love you doing something new. Creative people often have to stretch it a little bit, right . Shake it up. Shake it up, sister. How did this come to you . It came through my agent and she picked up the phone and i said hello and she said dolly parton and i said, yes, what are we doing which is pretty much how it goes anything that dolly does, right. I did the reading and was blessed and was lucky enough to get the call back. Dole gave the thumbs up and there we are. First time at acting, am i right . Well, i grew up doing theater. Theser. And then i just a wonderful opportunity to reenter that world earlier this year on broadway i did chicago. You were roxy. And my first full length feature and movie. How did you prepare for reading because that must have been a little bit unnerving . I love doing it and love story telling anyway and all the wasnt as much of a preparation but for the role i did get to dig in a bit and have a conversation with dolly about her mom and about their relationship. She remembers everything, too. An encyclopedia, that woman. Absolute. I what was her mom like . How would you describe her . I asked her because, of course, the script is there and its fantastic but thats able to be interpretive. Was she serious, funny . How was she . She said she was all those things. My momma was me without the dwlit glitter and i said i got it. Wow, wow, wow and our dear friend sam haskell produced. So, so precious. Cody actually saw it the other night, my son was at the screeninging. How was it. He said its fantastic. Everybody is going to love it. I think so. I think it will be something for everybody in it. Well, im excited because there is this adorable young girl. Yes. Who we love. Olivia alyn lind. I cant believe how cute you are. You are wearing the coat of many colors. From the movie. Can we show a little clip of you so we can get an idea. Sure, yeah. All right. Lets take a look at the clip. You have been chosen to play little dolly in the movie. Hows that . So you get the part, and im so honored and flattered. Oh, my god the did you think that you might have it . Well, i was blown away. I was so excited and my mind was totally blank. It was. I wasnt thinking about anything. Anything about that moment was out of my mind. How old are you, by the way . Im 8, 8 years old. Have you been told that. Thank you. That youre wise beyond your years . Was this a fun project for you . Oh, it was so much fun, and the parton family had like 12 kids so it was like so much fun getting to have like all the kids on set and everything and jennifer was so so, so sweet. You could be her daughter, your resemblance. A lovely, lovely young lady. Youve been doing this all your life basically, right . Youre not new to the business. Shes got way more experience. Ive been doing it since i was 3 years old. Is that your mom over there . Is that your mom. Raise your hands. The one that looks like barbie. Step out here, too. Just come and step out because youre so adorable. Got to be so proud of her. Touched by an angel. The oh, my gosh. We worked you were my surrogate. Thats just weird. Oh, my gosh. Barbara was there on set every day with aly and its she was also the wrangler of all the moms because shih like theres so many kids. Weve got to scoot and thank you. Were so excited. Thanks so much. Coat of many colors premiers this thursday night at 9 00, 8 00 central right here on nbc. He can help fix up your home but can he fix your relationship . Check out when our chip gaines joins our panel to answer the allburning questions. Thats chip. Eat up, buddy. Youll get it this time. Yeah ok not too quick dont let go until i say so. I got you. Youre doing it whole grain quaker oats. And off you go. Fact. When emergency room doctors choose an otc pain reliever for their patients muscle, back and joint pain. The medicine in advil is their 1 choice. Nothing is stronger on tough pain than advil. Relief doesnt get any better than this. Advil. At hillshire farm, spice is the spice of life. Thats why our craftsmen season every sausage perfectly. So you can coax out great flavor effortlessly. Do you wish that your guy would help you out more without having to ask . Last nerve. And the hunkie panel is here, and the guy of all mir gin, and hgtv chip gaines. And married with three sons. And a akctor and comedian. You have a new show . A podcast. Check it out. And the divorced dad. A bachelor who final lyly put a ring on it. Bob guinea. Is that the engagement picture . Yes, she stuffed cake in my face. And we go across the street. Im heidi from houston, texas, and im wondering if you have a small dog and a big dog and shares your pillow. Is that a dealbreaker . You rare talking about the dogs or the in the bed. Are we talking about the real dogs. Yes, real dogs in the bed. Who shares the pillow, the maul dog or the big dog. The big dog shares the pill pillow, and the the small dog is in between the covers. The dog. I went out with someone who had a dog, and she is said, i dont sleep with dogs, but now i sleep with dogs. And that is just him. Rim shot. And is it delusional to expect my husband to help out once in a while around the house without me asking . Yes. And what about the deal if he is is not doing it voluntarily . Well, once certain things get set in stone, it is hard to break them. You have to pick the battles. I think that as we said before, i know that my wife is not very good at dishwashing. If she washes the disheses, whatever comes out, it is what i accept. Is useless to have are a fight not her thing. And he not doing it voluntarily . I agree with the boys, once you start volunteering things, it is like, where does it stop . There you go. You to draw the line somewhere. And most of us are willing to do what we ask us to do, but we wont offer. And we dont want to be yelled at when we are wrong, wed rather you tell us. That is what i am learning in the new relationship. It is working out. Do you have a wedding date . No, we dont have one yet, but we are woshgrking on several options. Okay. Do we have time to go back across . No. We will take a break and come back with more questions for the guys sticking around. And then chip is going to join the better half, and i didnt write that, joeian ma to create a festive table without the buzz. And joy has an easy pasta and it is karl, dont you have friends coming over . Yeah, so . It stinks in here. Youve got to wash this whole room are you kidding . Wash it . Lets wash it with febreze. For all the things you cant wash, use. Febreze fabric refresher whoa hey mrs. Webber inhales hey, it smells nice in here and try pluggable febreze. To continuously eliminate odors for. Up to 45 days of freshness pluggable febreze and fabric refresher. [inhale exhale mnemonic]. , two more ways to breathe happy drama . Sometimes i like to push it. New push up drama mascara from Maybelline New York our unique cup shaped bristles. Cup and coat. For volume so lifted. Its our most dramatic, pushed up lashes. 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It is boozeday tuesday and we are back with the guys who are ready to tell all. And newly married to hgtv and host chip gaines. And our guy s thats that are so sad. And allegedly bob guinea. Really true. Lets go across the street. And hey, im jennifer hemsly from union hills, north carolina, and my question is how do you get your husband on board after 27 years to get your goals accomplished. My goodness, 27 years and your goals are not accomplished yet . I would say it is hard to get him on board for 27 years. And clearly, whatever you are i am lucky to get to 27 weeks. 27 you have accomplished the goal i would think of staying together. Right . I would say whatever it is, you sit down and have a very serious and open and heart felt but without any anger and re resentment, and this is what i really like to dand then you turn it back around and you say, what do you think that you can do to help us to get this, and hear what he has to say. Do you agree, chip . Very good. And what about if you were naked . Running through butt naked will work for everything. Goals, dishes, they answer to all of those problems. And carolyn says, i want to know what it means it is not you shgs you, but it is me. It means it is you. He does not like you. And that is probably true, right right . Yes. Back across the street. Hi, im andrea from virginia i wanted to noeknow what guys really want from their women for christmas . Well, we talked about it. Well, that is always the answer, what do you really want, and people think it is s eshgs xshgsxsex. And you are supposed to to be giving me sex all of the time, and dont keep me out on christmask because you want to substitute sex. I want 40 inch tv and sometimes it is not about the sex and the hunt and the chase, and sometimes it does not end in sex, but you rare tired are from the chase. That is my story. And you just deskribcribed my next story. After you have run after the naked then im exhaust and pass out. Yes, im 40. You guys are do doing it wrong then. I want to have sex and be rested. That is what i am saying. Socks and drawers, too, for christmas. I have never ever heard anybody say that. I want to buy it for myself, and you say, well, i can wait. And i keep waiting and the next thing that you know every single last pair has holes in the same place at the same time. And men dont like to buy underwear for themselves. And i have been with this man for 1 years, and he is starting to irritate me. He calls me everything but my name. And the two are lover and sweetie and i asked him to stop. It looks like i crushed his world. I mow he means well, but help me. And honestly, this happens. And honestly, this has happen ed to me. He has forgotten your name. I knew you were going to say that. It happens at 11 years you look up, and say, who the hell is that . Oh, my. And you give him a list of names that you prefer, also. And what is really going on lover is a wonderful thing to be to somebody, but sweetie. Those are ren dearment. And trying to get a different feel in the relationship, and trying to, you know. Trying to make her romantic, but i hate to say it, it is not mim, and what she is not dealing with, there is is resentment that she is harboring towards this man that she is not recognizing and now she is mad when she hears honey, and sweetie and honey, and it is like when somebody chews with their mouth open, but when you dont like them, it really brothers you. So a lot of information is really missing. Eyes, and i dont know how she is saying lover and sweetie. Yes. Sorry, guys, always fun, but it is over. And if you have a question for the panel, go to klgandhoda. Com and post it there. And coming up is joy philbin with an easy and tasty the kind of courage that shows up when we need it. And when cancer is least expecting it. Courage. 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