birthday and 60th wedding anniversary. it was gorgeous. people honored him for his life's work and his faithfulness. just a wonderful man who was so instrumental in encouraging me early in my career. >> that's awesome. i went looking for doris day in carmel. >> someone told me she lives at the cypress in. we were told that the week before. there was an outdoor citing. i was hoping she would come out on the balcony and leave. >> where was she. >> i don't know. i love her. frank and i had gone on her honeymoon and hadn't been back. we went some place near there in monterey county. i can't tell you about that. after the stuff, i came home and i did a lot of pod casts i wanted to be home a little bit. i had been working on that book for our show good gifts. one of the people that actually came out to the house and did pod cast was greg gutfeld. there is cody carrying greg. i think greg is 5'2". cody is 6'4". it was crazy. it was a lot of fun. i just wanted to be outside the whole time. >> by the way, this has been -- this east coast weather has been amazing. >> i think the big beginning of summ summer ever. >> i don't remember two weekends in a row that were just stupendous like these two. >> so what did you do? >> i had a lot of fun. went to the yankees game with a nice group of people. enjoyed the night game. went to see aaladin. >> can i tell you something. >> better the second time? >> i know. and i can't walk past a tv, watching the world cup without stopping. >> i like sports. i like to jump on any band wagon when it's near the end. i got to tell you -- >> you get caught up in it. >> it's nicaragua, it's crazy the things you're rooting for. the u.s. plays tuesday. >> you know, i would never dream i would say the day come when frank gifford would like soccer. this is a man who had no respect for it at all. he had no respect. he's like -- he is glued to it. >> it is addictive. >> matt was just in london when you were -- last week and he did the very first exclusive first television interview ever with pipa middleton since the wedding three year ago. never been a tv interview with her ever. >> let's see that shot again. yeah. we watched the interview with matt very closely. first we watched a little bit with the sound down just to look at body language. what do you think. >> we think he is an old fashioned biblical word called smitten. he liked her and then what, and then what. >> there's a perpetual smile on his face the entire time. >> but we heard there was a little accident beforehand. we will ask him about that. i think he might have been nervous. >> do you know what's funny? matt is neat sfrefreak. he didn't spill anything. he is spotless until pipa. >> we will talk to him about that. so the bet awards last night. >> i always call them the bet awards. >> black entertainment television. >> the awards were last night. ferell did what he does when he opens up a show. he lets it rip. here is a little appearance with him and missy elliot. take a look. ♪ ♪ ♪ come get it baby, ♪ come get it baby ♪ hey ♪ hey ♪ girl are you ready ♪ >> all right. so do you remember when donny awesome was here? >> yes. >> and we kept screaming come get it baby. >> you're moving into fun day monday. >> don't think i don't know it. >> i still miss doris day. he had a big night but he won best artist in r and b in pop. >> john legend performed a tribute with one of his greatest hits. take a listen ♪ ♪ you know just want to do, and i want to tell you so much ♪ ♪ i love you ♪ >> it's beautiful. good for lionel richie. >> i love it. i do love you, still. >> oh, that's music. >> i like when you sing. >> i don't. what are we going to do about shia labouf. he was sitting in the audience and they say -- there are different ways categorize it. they say he was being disruptive. he was smoking and grabbing. i don't know what he was doing. he got escorted out by cops. he was allegedly yelling and doing other things doing the performance. we have an update on the story. so a rep of liza monellies cement a, sent a dvd in case he wanted to know how it happened, to watch it. >> he was in prison. there was that bizarre scene of him chasing the homeless man before he even got to the theater for his mcdonald's bag. >> this guy is incredibly talented. it seems like we talk about these incredibly talented people and get too much too soon and don't have the human skills to deal with all of the success. >> remember when he was on the red carpet in berlin and he had a bag on his head. i'm not famous anymore. anyway, i wonder what's happening with him if it's just a wild night or something more or we will find out. >> we'll find out allegedly. >> so at wimbledon you guys know there's a dress code. you're supposed to wear all white. for the past year players have been wearing a bit of color. serena wore in 2013 she had coral under garments. so this year guidelines came out. players can only break up their all white tennis outfits with one secentimeter of colored tri. >> that puts them at a disadvantage. >> headband, dress band -- >> that's like a stripe. anyway, what was happening was some of the girls were wearing under garments like bras and things that were colored that were showing through and they had an issue with it at wimbledon so they were asking the girls who were wearing the color that was showing through the white to please go back and change. who carries under tons of different underwear. >> girl, you do in your purse but normal people don't. >> anyway. we don't have confirmation but apparently there may be some people who went braless because they don't have any options. do we have any pictures. >> if i went braless there would be people with whiplash playing tennis. i could hurt somebody. >> it's time for favorite thing. >> all righty. what is yours? this is something called renewed perfume. >> renewed. >> it's 39.99 sense of the spirit. it comes with a little scripture that reminds you of god's love. it's really nice. it's my gift to you. >> i have short eyelashes and for anyone who has really short eye lashes you don't want to put fake on but this is a thing by lancolme and it's called the booster. you take this out and it adds an extra coating to your maskara. it really does lengthen and extend. >> it comes as an enormous shock for somebody to see you without it. that's the danger. >> you know what. >> did you miss me? >> i didn't know he went to prison. i thought he spent a night in jail. >> she meant jail. to me they are the same thing. you are locked up and in handcuffs and you can't get out until somebody makes it so. >> sorry about that. the interview making headlines around the world. matt's sit down with the most famous in-law pipa and the lovely courtney kox. all of your celebrity buzz after this. until you book. um... yeah, i'd do that! ♪ hey, let's talk probiotics. for digestive health? erin andrews? yeah. and did you know trubiotics is a daily probiotic that helps in two ways? it supports digestive and immune health, by working in your gut where 70% of your immune system lives. now in chewables. so, which would you choose?a big part of your job. this one that cleans or this one that cleans and protects against dryness? that one. that's it. you got one question for me? dove men+care bodywash cleans and protects against dryness. ugh. heartburn. did someone say burn? try alka seltzer reliefchews. they work just as fast and taste better than tums smoothies assorted fruit. mmm. amazing. yeah, i get that a lot. alka seltzer heartburn reliefchews. enjoy the relief. time now for today's buzz. we get the inside scoop on all the headlines you may have missed over the weekend. here is entertainment weekly correspondent nina. hello, nina. >> hi. thanks for having me. >> you look lovely in that royal blue. >> bobby christina is not happy. >> what is she angry about. >> she took to twitter over the weekend sharing a couple of tweets that people think are directed at angela baset. i actually interviewed her and said did you ever consider bobby christina for the role of whitney houston she says no because she isn't an actress. she shared a few choice words that are directed at her. so we haven't had any statement with regards to angela's reaction -- >> what did she say in the tweets. >> she just characterized angela that negative way she said a couple of things about her sexuality. totally uncalled for. she doesn't look a thing like her mom. she certainly isn't the singer her mom was and the director has the right to choose for a role whoever they choose. >> speaking of angela, she said these things without malice. she said she isn't an actress and that being the case she chose yaya de costa. this is part of her vision for the film to cast unknowns so people can focus on whitney's story. >> whitney's family was upset there was a bio at all. >> let's talk about jlow. she was at the i heart music pool party over the weekend. she was doing a floor slide when she banged up her knee. she was a professional. she finished her show. >> i feel like i have spent the last three year like that. >> that was bizarre. >> that was on saturday. yesterday she flew to new york where she performed. back to back performances. >> she seems to be in a different part of the world every single day now. >> can't keep up with her. >> in a different ice skating outfit. >> it's unbelievable. >> then she's in vegas. i go i wouldn't want to be jet lagged that much. >> she lost ten pounds. she looks fantastic. >> promoting her new album aka. >> amy adams is getting a lot of press for giving up her seat. >> she was flying from detroit where she is filming bat man versus superman where she spotted a military service man in front of her and she made up her choice there to give up her first class seat so he could sit in comfort. she wouldn't have said a word accept a passenger tweeted hey, i saw amy adams give up her seat. it's fantastic. amy does have a spoft spot because her dad was an army officer. she was born in italy. transformers is number one with $100 million. >> in despite of dreadful reviews. >> wow. that's amazing. >> but the guys loved it. 64% of the audience are males. >> they love thing that's blow up. >> 22 jump street was number two are $15 million and third was how to train your dragon two with $13 million. >> looking for something to do with those little nose picker kids of yours? >> real moms are here with their top picks for classic flicks. >> if anyone can score a big interview it's matt lauer with an interview with kate middle ton's sister pipa after this. ♪ we didn't know what they would have him doing. ♪ but, bobby always had a plan. ♪ [ male announcer ] with unmatched training in over 150 careers beyond the battlefield, there are over 150 surprising ways to become army strong. talk to your son or daughter about opportunities in the army. ♪ everybody here got the lunchtime blues ♪ ♪ they need to be inspired something better than the rest. ♪ new lipton peach iced tea ♪ with that ham and cheese ♪ ♪ it tastes so sunshine-y [ carl ] ♪ drink it down and you'll believe ♪ ♪ the taste of peachiosity hey, let's talk probiotics. for digestive health? erin andrews? yeah. and did you know trubiotics is a daily probiotic that helps in two ways? it supports digestive and immune health, by working in your gut where 70% of your immune system lives. now in chewables. three years ago, pippa middleton was propelled into the world's spot light after wearing a show stopping brooid maid's dress that did flatter her back side. >> she managed to steal the show from her famous sister kate as she wed prince william. pippa has never opened up about it publically until now. >> how did you get that interview by the way? >> she was here in the united states doing a ride across america. a bicycle ride for charity. she tried to do something then but she wanted focus on charity and she waited until it's over and i said how about i fly across to london and do it. and much to our surprise they said sure get on a plane. i didn't realize at a time she had never done an interview before. >> she had to be doing some interviews for her book and thing that's were out. >> only print. only print she'd never done a television interview before. >> i think she'd done one or two print interviews. we actually tried to do an interview with her for a book. this is the first time she has ever sat down for a television interview. >> we notice a little bit that you seemed a little smitten with her. >> oh, no. i think she's lovely i think she's a -- i think people when they see the interview they will find that she's a lovely down-to-earth really kind compassionate person. >> she seemed that way. >> that was an interviewing technique just as you do when you throw on the charm. >> did you have a little accident ahead of time? >> you spilled something. oh, i did. i spilled a little -- i spilled -- tea. >> her tea. >> you're a neat guy. >> it was a wobbly table. i sat down and i went to cross my legs -- >> you know how that happens? who told you that? >> we have our ways. >> we have our sources. >> we're investigative journalists. did you have to ask. you asked her being very delicately. the guys in the office wanted to know what happened to the car. the women in the office wanted to know what happened to the dress. so we talked about dress that made her famous for its fit. take a look. >> okay. >> it didn't take long after that moment and people started talking about you and for lack of a better way to explain it, the way your dress fit. how did you feel about that? >> it was completely unexpected. you know? i think the plan was not really for it to be a significant dress. really to blend in. i thought it was flattering. >> a little embarrassing. >> embarrassing, definitely because it wasn't planned. the dress was always meant to be insignificant. >> it wasn't on to become one of the most talked about dresses in the world. where is the famous dress. >> it's actually in my wardrobe at home. >> have you worn it since. >> no, i haven't worn it since. i will keep it there. i think i will bring it out when my children one day want to see it than i will show them but it's tucked away. >> she's overpowered by the whole situation. she wore a little top and jeans and just seems to be comfortable in her own skin. there's more. >> what are we going to learn. >> we should point out the first two parts of the interview are on today.com. >> tomorrow we will talk about her relationship with kate and whether it has changed since her sister became the duchess of cam ber ij. >> we will look forward to that. back after your local news. ♪ ♪ ♪ sweet chariot ♪ ♪ coming forth to carry me home ♪ ♪ >> children are dying everyday from hunger and sickness. innocent children just like this one. these children are facing death right now but with your support and just .50 cents a day, we can save them. please, go online or call this number and join the u.s. fund for unicef for only $15 a month. it's just .50 cents a day and you'll deliver emergency medical care, vaccine, and life saving nutrition to the children who could do without it. it's just .50 cents a day but it will mean the difference between life and death for a child waiting for help right now. ♪ ♪ come forth to carry me ♪ >> reach out to that child so they never have to look into the face of death again. go on line or pick up the phone now. rn? try alka seltzer reliefchews. they work just as fast and taste better than tums smoothies assorted fruit. mmm. amazing. yeah, i get that a lot. alka seltzer heartburn reliefchews. enjoy the relief. we're back with more of today on this fun day monday and our real moms are here with some classic movies that you can watch with your kids when it's just too rainy to be outside. >> mother of three, she is the founder of divamoms.com. i love this topic. tell us about your first pick. >> the princess pride. it's one of the greatest movies. if there's one thing about being stuck home on a rainy day, being stuck in bed with a cold is even worse. it's in that framing that we get this ferry tail through a child's eyes. it has everything like sword fighting and funny bad guys. >> for girls there's a regular girl being a princess and escaping on horseback. >> your daughter is over there. do you like your mom's pick. thumbs up or thumb's down. >> let's move down the line. tell us your pick. i like bend it like beckham. it's a great movie from all ages. a story in london from a traditional london family. they want her to grow up to be a wife and she wants to kick a soccer ball around. she learns to follow her dreams in many different ways. >> for me it's willy wanka and the chocolate factory. it is one of my all time favorites to wauftch alone withy husband and with the children. >> i love that movie. >> so many good ones to pick from. the scenery is just beautiful in this film and imagination seasonand charlie bucket is one of the all time classic characters. >> we will go back for round three. a perfect way to introduce your kids to the classics is on a rainy day with 1952's singing in the rain. >> there's two things that kids love in movies which is comedy and catchy songs. it has both. it holds up really well. by the way, there's also a scene make them laugh. you know? >> right. >> it's one of the funnest music -- >> amazing chorography. >> i have to pick babe because my son likes to watch that. the little pig who changes his fate. he comes to the farm and finds out what happens to pigs so he decides what he's going to do about it and becomes this skill of becoming a shepherd and convinces everyone that he has a purpose. it's beautifully reacted. >> you got a classic. i certainly do. for the teens and tweens, 16 candles. it's still to this day takes my breath away with samantha and jake ryan have their first kiss over the cake in their home. it's just a classic film that i think all teens and tweens should see on a rainy day. >> it's very romantic. >> to this day, i still have a crush on jake ryan. >> ladies, thank you so much. >> thank you. >> great picks. your daughters are adorable over there. >> thank you. >> well, how to take care of a loved one while also taking care of yourself. >> and from fine to fridaysy hair care tips after this. see that? 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>> in the first week and a half it was where is patricia. then he started to remember. he was so sad. now, you never know. one day he will know and the next day he won't know at all. >> it's a very tough thing. >> sometimes you might want to help and care for your parent but you're not reallyhow to do it or if you're equipped. >> but to understand what this person really needs and what you are able to do? part of what we're talking about is care giving but you have to be able to assess what is possible for you to do and then take care of yourself with the support system you need. >> i told my sister i'm more concerned about her than my mom because my sister is wearing herself down to the bone and not letting everybody else help. >> the potential burn out. the potential burn out in care givers is a real issue. that's what you're talking about. i think for all of us, it's like the people who care about us when we're the care givers they say you're the person who has to be taken care of yourself. >> you have to be able to get help and accept it. i see so many people -- especially spouses tend to be more vulnerable with this. they aren't getting as much help from other people. i think that's one of the things because you feel like i committed to this. i can do this all but you know what, nobody can do it all. we all need some help. i have to do the same thing. >> sometimes the parent doesn't think they need help. >> yes. >> they don't want you crowding their space. >> yes. >> how do you have that initial converse, a we got to do this. >> i think if you're a parent, the spouse or the child, it's a kind of a different conversation but i this one of the things you say is, you know, i've been in thing some things are changing. it also depends on the type of the illness this person has. if they have a illness where they aren't noticing they are becoming diminished it's another conversation. i have noticed things have been changing but it would be helpful to me if i could help you with some of the things that you always did. i would really like to help you out and partner with you and i'd like to learn. you never diminish the person. you always maintain their dignity and you do what you feel you can do and slowly you take on more ponresponsibility. >> the goal is for people to be as independent as possible for as long as possible. >> they don't want to give up the keys to their apartment or home. >> it's very important. >> i don't want anything to happen to you to hurt yourself but how would you ever feel if you hurt someone else because you had a panic attack or you couldn't see well enough or you forgot where you were. >> when you feel it's the best part of them you go -- oh, that's awful. >> you're caring for your parent and you have a life. how are you staying recharged? 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>> russians yell. why are you -- let's go to karen. so this is what her natural state is like. what did you do to it? >> so karen's texture when texture like this, you want to make sure that -- you don't want to overshampoo this hair. our friend vicky has great products. we used whipping cream and you want to make sure you use a really soaking wet hair. what we did was twisted it. i will demonstrate. you twist it. you untwist it and you loosen the curl because with this texture, the main problem it's very kinky and tight. >> i know. i know. >> you know, hoda, right? >> it's adorable. i want to see your hair that way some time. >> it's so cute. i love it. >> it will last for weeks. >> weeks? >> weeks. >> karen, you look great, let's move on. cherish. this is her before. this is what her hair normally looks like. she has fine hair. so really fine hair. you will see through so what we did is give her the thick bangs to make it think looking. when you have hair like cherishes you want to cut it with regular scissors. you want to make sure it's cut solid. >> one thing you do well is you always cut to match someone's face. you don't cut because you want to put the cool put on somebody. what kind of products do you put in there. very affordable products. you can get it anywhere. it's a moisturizing shampoo and conditioner. and we have anti-gravity here by kevin murphy and we mix it with mo oil and it makes it thick. >> no need to wore kri about your hair if you're working from home. great ways to earn extra cash but first this is today on nbc. >> yeah. >> right now, somewhere in america, there's an animal being beaten and another being locked in a cage, alone, and left to die. scared, innocent animals don't realize there's any hope for a better life. at the aspca we're committed to searching every dark corner to find them and to help heal the deep physical and emotional wounds that have been inflicted on them. but we can't reach these animals without your support. so please visit our web site or call now and join. sign up for just $18 a month. it's only .60 cents a day and you'll help rescue animals who are suffering and provide medical care, food, shelter, and love. the situation is urgent so we're asking you to join in the next ten minutes. if you do, we will send you the photo of an animal from our shelter and an aspca t-shirt. if you you've wondered if your support will make a difference, i can tell you it will. if you've ever thought about helping, this is the time. it's a painful and horrifying life without these animals but for just .60 cents a day, you can change everything. it could be the most important thing you do today. go online or call right now. how does this sound to you? 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>> yeah. >> if you check out freelancewriting.com. there's a good place to start. maybe some of them might be asking for things up front and providing advice so go to a forum for writers first. there's actually one freelancewritersd freelancewritersden.com. you can start to write about whatever you're good at. companies like mine need a lot of content. we need it out to social media content and they will pay you for it. >> what about an at home answering service? >> so check out customer communications court. what you're doing for a small business, they need someone -- they can't afford a full time secretary so they need somebody who can answer the phone, take messages and refer them out. so essentially what you're doing but from your own home. >> i've never met them but i hear he can be -- >> if you speak another language there's another job out there for you. >> 2010 to 2020 the bureau of statistics is increasing a 20% increase in these jobs. >> coming up tomorrow our guide tell us plus a performance by country >> i'm here to help. you and i will get through this together. ♪