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"nightly news" begins right now. from nbc news world headquarters in new york, this is "nbc nightly news" with lester holt. good evening. 29 days until election day and our new poll numbers out tonight speak to the urgent crisis exploding inside the republican party from the top down. with donald trump's fortunes fading over his lewd comments about women, a gop civil war has broken out. at its center, party loyalty versus self-survival. the crisis underscored by a new nbc news/"wall street journal" poll taken after the controversy and before last night's debate, showing hillary clinton with an 11-point lead over trump nationally among likely voters. nbc's hallie jackson has late details. >> reporter: tonight, abandonment and astonishment as the country's top republican walks away from the top of his ticket. house speaker paul ryan telling his colleagues on a conference call, he won't defend donald trump anymore, won't campaign for him. essentially conceding trump won't win. sources on the call revealing ryan was forced to reiterate he won't unendorse trump after facing backlash from angry house members. >> i think we came away pretty united. >> how do you talk about unity when the house speaker isn't going to campaign with or defend the party's nominee? >> he's still endorsing him, very unusually and i think paul ryan is trying to make the best of a difficult situation. >> reporter: ryan focusing only on saving gop control of congress. even as trump today tweeted ryan shouldn't waste his time on fighting the republican nominee. senator richard burr, up for re-election in north carolina, won't stick by trump's side. >> if we don't allow somebody to be forgiven, who's going to forgive us? >> all of it illustrating the gop dilemma. go against trump and risk the wrath of his base, or go against him and hope he loses. now it's not just the senate in danger, but the house too. >> it's time for republicans to hit the panic button, because trump could drag them into the political abyss. >> reporter: the republican national committee silence so far, but outside its headquarters, a graphic display of the gop divide. at a protest, a reference to trump's comments about grabbing women's genitals. >> each candidate is running for him or herself. that may include embracing donald trump or not embracing donald trump's. >> reporter: ryan's republicans and trump's, a coalition now crumbling. our new polling shows more voters want democrats to control congress by the widest margin since 2015. but the republican party is still standing by his nominee. nbc has learned, privately reassuring its membership of its great relationship with team trump. all of this following last night's second presidential debate, perhaps the ugliest we've seen in modern political history. trump unleashed some of his harshest attacks yet to his opponent's face, while clinton continued to try and stay above the fray. we have it all covered, starting with nbc's katy tur. >> reporter: good evening, lester. the line to get into trump's event is thousands of people deep. supporters willing to stand by trump and against anybody who stands in his way. last night's debate was largely seen as trump's best chance to make amends with the republican party, but he proved he had no interest in that, staging a political stunt that some operatives believe could cost him the election. fueled by a fevered crowd in pennsylvania, donald trump was on the attack. >> special prosecutor, here we come, right? >> reporter: a day after turning the debate stage into a side show, putting hillary clinton face to face with accusers from her past. >> if you look at bill clinton, far worse. mine are words, and his was action. hillary clinton attacked those same women. and attacked them viciously, four of them here tonight. >> reporter: the gop nominee was going for a vicious counterpunch, backed into a corner by a 2005 audio leak. >> grab them by the [ bleep ]. >> you bragged that you have sexually assaulted women. do you understand that? >> no, i dnd say that at all. i don't think you understood what was said. this was locker room talk. >> have you ever done those things? >> and those women have respect for me. no i have not. >> reporter: the cannot hitting new political lows, calling clinton the devil, confirming he did not pay federal taxes, casting conspiracy theories, fighting with the moderators. >> nice, one on three. >> reporter: and throwing red meat to his base. threatening clinton with jail time for her use of a private e-mail server. >> i am going to instruct my attorney general to get a special prosecutor to look into your situation. >> it's just awfully good that someone with the temperament of donald trump is not in charge of the law in our country. >> because you'd be in jail. >> generally do not have candidates for president threatening to jail or prosecute their opponent. that's the kind of thing that you might expect from a third world country. >> reporter: after a kould introduction trump spent 90 minutes stalking the debate floor, at times hovering behind clinton. he didn't take notes. he barely smiled, and at times he ignored the facts. on yet another hack into the clinton campaign e-mails -- >> she doesn't know if it's the russians doing the hacking. maybe there is no hacking. >> reporter: but a senior u.s. intelligence official tells us trump has known about the evidence of russia's hacking since mid august when security officials briefed him on the direct link to putin's government. >> this is andrea mitchell, tonight hillary clinton in michigan bolstered by a growing lead in the polls. >> did anybody see that debate last night? >> reporter: and newly confident after that verbal slug fest with donald trump. trump's biggest mistake, the clinton team believes it was not giving a stronger apology for those lewd comments. >> he just doubled down on his excuse, that it's just locker room banter. >> reporter: the debate, stunningly personal, including clinton's decision in the opening moments not to shake trump's hand. a choice she didn't signal to anyone beforehand. clinton's strategy throughout the night, to not be rattled by trump. >> i am reminded of what my friend michelle obama advised of all. when they go low, you go high. >> reporter: even with trump hovering behind her while she answered questions -- >> i would go back and lean up against my stool, but he was very present. >> reporter: in michigan and ohio, clinton is trying to register students before tomorrow's deadline. but a new challenge, what may come out from thousands of hacked e-mails, released by wikileaks from clinton's campaign chairman. when clinton was asked last night about a paid wall street speech, in which she confided that in order to get anything done in washington, you need both a public and a private position. she explained last night she was talk about the steven spielberg movie about abraham lincoln. >> president lincoln was trying to use one argument to convince some people, and another argument to convince other people. >> she cauggot caught in a lie. >> reporter: tonight they believe they took trump's roughest shot and their strategy of staying above the fray has worked so far, with one month to go. andrea mitchell. a lot to digest here, let's bring in our political director, the moderator of "meet the press." chuck, we've never seen anything like the past 72 hours. the civil war in the republican party, a flood of gop lawmakers abandoning their nominee. 29 days until the election to save themselves. what happens now? >> i think the republican party was about to leave trump en masse, with the assumption that last night was going to -- where he would have a meltdown on stage that would have looked like the first debate where even supporters were going to throw in the towel. the problem is, trump has made it harder for these guys to walk away, because he threw so much red meat at his base, that there will be retribution to any republican, say if you're pat toomey, the republican center struggling in a re-election in pennsylvania, if he wants to unendorse trump, he needs trump supporters, but he needs those folks who don't like trump too. so he's caught in this vice grip. i think a bunch of republicans woke up today, stepped outside and thought it was like stepping outside in the eye of a hurricane. assuming everything's okay, when they don't realize the worst may be yet to come with trump. they may be staring at a total collapse of the party by election day. >> thanks, chuck, for your analysis. now to the state of emergency in the aftermath of hurricane matthew. towns left under water and residents left trapped as rivers overflow their banks. the epicenter of the danger is in north carolina. that's where we find our national correspondent miguel almaguer. >> reporter: tonight in north carolina, this is the desperate race to save lives. the town of lumberton, drowning in a deluge. neighbors helping neighbors. >> that's what we should do, come together and help one another. >> reporter: who can't wait for rescue teams trying to reach them. 1,500 people trapped by flood waters. >> we was helping whoever needed the chance to get out. >> thank you, thank you. >> and we've been doing this since 9:00 this morning. >> reporter: north carolina is in a state of emergency. 1400 rescues in 24 hours. some levies can't hold back all the water and rivers are rising. >> reporter: lefander clark and his fiancee lost everything. >> i walked through the house and everything we own in there was floating. >> reporter: first responders are still flooding in, pulling children and their parents to safety. >> and i walked through water all the way up to my stomach, with my kids, it was horrific. >> reporter: hurricane matthew dumped over a foot of rain. at least 23 were killed in the u.s., nearly half of those in north carolina. after plowing through haiti, where matthew killed hundreds, there's now fear of a cholera outbreak. the u.n. says over a million there need help. shredding the coast of florida, knocking out power across much of georgia, in the carolinas, matthew's wrath left roads swamped and buried in debris. the moore family home, hit with five feet of water. amber, an iraq veteran, losing her purple heart in the flood. >> we never thought it would be this bad. never thought. and i don't think anyone else did either. >> reporter: with the damage estimated at up to $6 billion, tonight in communities like lumberton, the water continues to rise. the storm gone, but its wrath still being felt. with water rescues still unfolding at this very hour, we are told some rivers could crest 17 feet above flood stage. meantime, the president has declared a disaster in multiple states. and over in florida, a federal judge even extended voter registration because of this slow-motion ongoing crisis. lester? >> all right, miguel almaguer in north carolina tonight. thank you. in california, a man accused of killing two palm springs police officers is expected to be formally charged in court form. john felix was arrested over the weekend for the short shooting deaths of two officers in the community. a huge outpouring of emotion for these fallen officers. officer zerenby was only 27 and recently gave birth to a daughter. officer vega was 63 and due to retire in december. still ahead tonight, more bad news if you own one of those samsung phones recalled over risk of burstsing into flames. why even the replacement phones are not considered safe. also, the unlikely critic going on offense against nfl player protests. the big name calling ♪ i'm going to make this as simple as possible for you. you can go ahead and stick with that complicated credit card that limits where you earn bonus cash back. or... you can get the quicksilver card from capital one. quicksilver earns you unlimited 1.5% cash back on ev-e-ry purchase, ev-e-ry-where. i shouldn't have to ask. what's in your wallet? 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[crash] okay. finally tonight, the letter that is moving millions all across the country. it's a love letter of sorts, written by a husband with a touching expression of gratitude towards those who don't often hear the words "thank you." here's kristen dahlgren. >> reporter: when 34-year-old laura died, husband could have easily melted into grief. what he did instead is inspiring. a simple act, a thank you letter sent to the doctors, nurses, even the cleaning staff. everyone who helped care for his wife. so extraordinary it was published in "the new york times." he writes, how many times did you hug me and console me when i fell to pieces? or asked about laura's life, and the person she was. amanda morris was their social worker. >> despite such tragedy, i think that there was a lot of beauty in that room. >> reporter: like the time hospital staff looked the other way when peter smuggled in their beloved cat for one final lick. >> it's not just about the physical support you give, it's about that emotional support. >> reporter: or when this nurse helped peter climb into his wife's bed to spend one last hour at her side. he called it a gift beyond gifts. but what he's now given them is a public expression of his appreciation, so powerful it hangs in the intensive care unit at cambridge hospital. >> we all needed to be able to walk by it and look at laura's picture and remember, even in the difficult moments, that this is why we do what we do. >> reporter: the sentiment struck a nerve online. stories like this make me remember why i practice intensive care medicine. sometimes you need a letter to restore your faith in humanity. gratitude from a grieving huds, now teaching the power of saying "thank you." kristen dahlgren, nbc news, new york. and that will do it for us on a monday night. i'm lester holt. for all of us at nbc news, thank you for watching and goodnight. the donald in the doghouse with melania. new fallout as the stars sound off on the debate. billy bush gets benched on the "today" show. >> now on "extra" from new york. ♪ extra extra ♪ extra extra is billy bush cooked on the "today" show? >> nbc news suspended billy bush. >> any comments about the leak the audio and video of you and donald trump? >>s trump brushes off crude comments a -- >> locker room talk. >> is he in hot water with melania? >> the hidden message in her pink blouse. who's threatening to unleash more explosive audiotapes? then -- >> he's a punk. >> robert de niro's gone viral rant. >> he's a dog. he's a pig.