A huge thank you to you, your colleagues, for taking on this, i know that you are taking on great responsibility, i havent heard the specifics for a long time, this is what we are taking on, a big thank you to your entire team, thank you very much, very much, i will just pray for you every day, nothing more. Yul, you are a fighter, evgeniy, next to you is also a fighter, i really want to believe and believe that everything will be fine with you. Thank you, thank you. Evgeniy, we wish you health, we wish you to get rid of this problem and live a full life next to your beloved. Thanks a lot. Even with the most delicate problem, you can turn to our program for help. We will continue tomorrow, a new dna test right now. Tomorrow on the program behind the crap, a man is accused of beating his wife to death in front of nineyearold pasenko. She was only 29 years old, having turned one a month ago. According to the accused himself, his wife was hit by a car. She went to the store, and in this state she returned from the store. Can not believe that he and the couples friends killed his beloved. Stood nearby all the time, just nastya, my nastya, he directly showed everyone what happened on that terrible night, he forced the child to wash the washing machine from the blood, then he got ready to leave the apartment, leaving two small children with a dead mother, this is beyond the bounds , tomorrow at 16 45 on ntv. She wanted to give up her daughter. In the maternity hospital, but changed her mind when she found out that she herself grew up in a stepfamily. In our studio maria kudryashova. Hello maria, hello. Why did you want to give up your daughter . It so happened that we did not live with dad at that time, with the childs father. We broke up during. Pregnancy, the ground was pulled out from under my feet, and i was simply confused, i was young, i was 19 years old, i was unmarried, i had no job, no education, but what about your family . Reacted to your pregnancy . Initially, my mother was very much against it, that is, she saw in me just an unstable personality, she was worried that i couldnt cope with myself somewhere, but i would still have a small child, she scolded. I didnt accept this fact, but over time, when i was carrying my daughter, she got very used to it, naturally, she was already waiting, and everyone was waiting for her birth. Maria, who were you planning to tell first that you decided to keep the child . I didnt plan to tell , my mother just called and i started telling her all this, that is, i had no plans there, but it was right on the day of birth and i started telling what i probably couldnt handle, at that moment both my mother and dad. They were waiting for the child, they were waiting for me to come with the child home, and i kind of tell them the opposite, yes , that i cant, i cant handle it, and my mother started to explain to me, there, yes, mash, youre in this state now, calm down, you need to calm down , come on there, well , youll take it with a cool head , now you havent recovered from childbirth yet, well, you started explaining such things, it calmed you down, it didnt calm me down, i was in such a state that. Its as if i would have already made a decision for sure only it can be the only correct one, but my mother had already done it this way and that, that is, i hung up the phone, my mother called back, this conversation went on for an hour and a half, then, apparently, my mother already understood that there were not enough arguments, she, well, just somehow expressed in her hearts that mash, please dont do this, in at one time you were also abandoned, but take the child home, it was such a moment, on the one hand, terrible, yes, when a mother wants to abandon her child, on the other hand, in our history, it was salvation, well, these words right away. You were put in order, you changed your mind, of course, of course, go home, i came back with the child, everyone was very happy, that is, now we are very happy, yes, as we named our daughter, varvara, now im just living as if my own story, i was only 18 years old then, and me too, no, me the doctor dissuaded me from giving the child away, i decided that i would leave him, so the doctor instructed me, you say you are young, you are only 18 years old, everything is ahead of you, and now this is a wonderful son. You had a difficult life situation then, yes maria, but nevertheless, when you gave birth to your daughter, you told the girls father, yes, he was very i was happy, i helped you, we are still together, we made up, everything worked out, and now we live together, that is, the birth of a daughter, whom you even planned to abandon, cemented your relationship, it, this birth cemented everything, all ours family relationships, is this your only child . And we have five children, five, yes , we have five children, maria, you are grateful to your mother for telling you the truth, i am immensely grateful to my mother, because i know how hard it was for her, it was very difficult for her to decide to this step, but in this situation she didnt see any other way out, that is, she never planned to tell you that you werent her own, well, then there were conversations that if it werent for this incident, i would never have found out, and if it werent for my mothers words, you yourself would someday have you ever thought about the fact that you might not be everyones relative . There was a moment when i saw that i didnt look like my mom, my dad, my moms relatives, my dads relatives, that is, well, no one at all, then i thought why is this, why do i have girlfriends , for example, there are friends, they are like that, well, they either look like mom or dad, or both parents, yes, it was just not clear to me, but they didnt ask why that was . No, for some reason i didnt even ask, but i have a strong character. I was like my dad , i found this moment connecting , that is, this was enough for me, apparently, not to ask these questions, in your environment no one asked such a question, neither a hint, nor a halfword, in general, nothing even close in my life this was not the case, sometimes they asked why your parents were aged, that is, me when adopted, mom was 40 years old, and dad was 43 years old, and that is, when i was 15 there, so yes. They were already at such a respectable age, these were the questions, and why are we not alike, no, they didnt ask , and after your mother told you the truth, you wanted to look at your blood parents, of course, you wanted to look, you wanted to know, you wanted to know more than just the backstory that i was adopted, but i was faced with this feeling, that i seem to be uncomfortable, or i would offend with these questions, and i dont i asked when they were alive, and their adoptive parents were long gone, yes, dad left in 2012, he had oncology, mom left in 2018, but she had diabetes mellitus; on the background of diabetes mellitus, first one organ system was destroyed, then another, in general, the body was gradually deteriorating, it was difficult for them to leave, and especially for my mother . Because when dad left, there was mom, when mom left, there was no one left, well , no one, just those closest, although there were brothers and sisters there, and relatives, for example, i would have been raised in a family, yes, in which, well, for example, there were either adopted children, or their own children, and we grew up together, and somehow together it would have been easier to experience this grief, but what happened was, that it s as if, well, there are no loved ones, and you started looking for a biological family, and resentment towards the biological family . No, i didnt have any resentment, because, uh, i dont know the backstory of this story, i dont know the backstory, and i can assume that there could be endless reasons, just sometimes uh, some terrible actions we do it out of good intentions, and this also happens, a relative of your adoptive parents knew that you were not their own daughter, but did not tell you the truth, in the studio irina yakubova. Hello. Hello irina. You probably remember well how maria appeared in the family. Yes. The first time they brought masha, she was one and a half years old, but she was still very little, she was a very pretty, beautiful girl, so chubby, how old were you then, i was 11 years old, and my relatives immediately told you that maria is their adopted daughter, no, when they arrived, when they brought masha, they said that this was their own daughter, my grandmother seemed to have doubts, because no one had heard about pregnancy, it was like a birth, we didnt hear the birth of a child either, there are one and a half. Girls, they arrived, well, somehow the grandmother voiced her doubts, yes, she talked with her father, with her mother in the reception car, asked them, well , what did they say, what is it our own daughter, and why they didnt tell, they explained somehow, well, they probably didnt want that someone from our family will let slip , say that she, as they say, is not family , they didnt want to traumatize her, your grandmother didnt raise this issue again, no, it wasnt raised like that within the family circle, but it was discussed, of course, that she was still. Offended by mashas father, that they had a very good relationship, a trusting relationship with her, but he didnt say anything, well, maybe mom was there, that is , she played a role, she said so that, as it were, well, not to speak, that is, the grandmother was offended that she was not told the truth, well, yes, it was like that, yes maria, why do you think your parents didnt even tell their relatives the truth . I think its because when they adopted me, they accepted me so much that they didnt even want to hear from anyone, yes, what suddenly . I told them there, that is, i wasnt there, i wasnt. Irina, do you remember when maria finally found out that she was adopted . Yes, she came to visit us, she told about it herself, what her parents told her. And maria told you that she wanted to find her family, especially when her parents died, she really wanted to find her mother, well. Relatives. Maria, what did you know about your biological relatives . My mother only told me that she adopted me there at the age of 8 months, that my name was galina, and my last name was lukinets, and since during the life of my parents i didnt really try to find out anything else, yes, i only had this information. That is, your parents changed your first and last name. First name, last name and patronymic. What about your date of birth . Date of birth. For some reason she went home, then they couldnt find her, well, heres some kind of story confusing, incomprehensible, my mother told me, but do i know my mothers name . My mother didnt tell me her name, then after my mothers death, i was able to find my mothers name by searching on my own. How did this happen . I decided to post an announcement that right here in the naril group, that s where exactly. I was born in this city, yes, that i am such and such, such and such, galina lukinets, im looking for my relatives, maybe namesakes, yes , maybe somehow i can unwind this ball through my native city, 3 days later a woman wrote to me, she wrote to me that she saw my profile on social networks, saw that i was visually very similar to my mother, so she decided to tell me what she knew there, yes, she is not 100 sure that this is my story, but because of the visual similarity. Decided to tell me at some point, she already told me that she knows svetlana lukinets, yes, that it is possible that this is my mother, that she, this woman and my mother were brought up in the same boarding school in the city of norilsk, my mom, svetlana lukines, got it there with my younger brother alexey, because their mother drowned in a lake in the city of narilsk, and at that moment i already had a name, and the name of my supposed uncle. I searched the internet for everyone with this last name alekseev and svetlana, but i couldnt find anyone who was related specifically to my story. Then, when i found out this story, i happily shared it with my godmother, my godmother said what my adoptive mother had told her at one time, that it seems my mothers name is sveta, that is, this name flashed again, and well, this gave i really like greater confidence. That is, there is a high probability that your biological mothers name is svetlana. Yes, a lot of facts point to this. And this woman also told something, maybe about Svetlana Lukina , at first i was in such a state, i. I knew that svetlana had a brother, and i was a little so inspired that i now ill continue my search there, but i have some plans and was digesting this information, well, i didnt write to this woman, but its like maybe a week or two for this period was, and then i think, well, i need to ask again, when i already saw i wanted to ask again, i saw that she deleted the profile, that is, it was as if she had found herself in such a situation that i had no one else to ask. Well, i kind of already felt my powerlessness in this situation, who would you like to find, from all the relatives you can, that well, if these people are directly related to me, then it could be any person from my relatives, well, they were looking are you svetlana lukinets . Well, of course i would like to find my mother, this is it certainly, but do you think your mother, who left you in the hospital and disappeared, could have given birth to more children . I think, of course, she could. So you think you have brothers or sisters . Well, perhaps yes. I always wanted to have brothers or sister. We managed to find a woman who was born in norilsk, 8 years later than you. Her mothers name is also svetlana. She only has a last name. Lukyanian, not lukyanian. Today. This woman came to us in our studio alina lukyanets. Hello alina. Tell us a little about yourself. Were you raised by your mother . No. I have a mother i died and my aunt raised me, she took me so that i wouldnt end up in the homes of people like that. Were you still little . Yes, i was 2 years old. What happened to mom . Mom died of cancer, she was sick for a long time, uh, and she died, and my aunt took me, did you know that you are not being raised by your mother, aunt . They told me later, when i was 78 years old, they told me that i have biological parents, mom and dad, they showed me photographs, thats what they told me, that well, mom died, it happened that way, and dad from me refused. I didnt even come to my mothers funeral, he just abandoned everything from me, and my aunt took me, well, because, well, my mother died right away, they buried her there and they took me away right away, he didnt appear in your life anymore, he appeared , i found him myself, it turns out that my mother told me about him , well, when she told me that my mother died, there is the fact that i have a dad, i started, well, she has everything, well, pry, say, mom, tell me about dad, since mom died, thats it, i s. Ive come to terms with this, i already understand that she cant be brought back, i started asking about my dad, like, well, my own father, i want to see each other, talk, yes, mom at first she didnt want to tell me, well, because he refused, why, but i still started to stir it all up to look for it, she still told me his name, surname, and i found him on social networks, started communicating with him, he told me i also started showing my little childhood photographs, introduced him to my grandmother, i talked to him. Well, around the age of 17, i started talking to him, then, when i was 18, i invited him to come to us, so i said, dad, i say, come to my eighteenth birthday, we ll see each other, at least well talk for the first time to see each other in life for so many years , he didnt come, i told him, if you dont come, then i wont communicate with you, well, i just wont, why, if you dont even want to come, he didnt want to come, like this family where i live now, i just stopped. Communicating with him, and you are grateful to the aunt who took you when you, it turns out, were left completely alone, completely defenseless, of course, grateful, she raised me, raised me, became mother, yes, of course, she became a close, dear person, she didnt abandon you i was in such trouble as i was in, my mother did the same, my mother, i lived with my brother and my mother, the three of us lived, a distant relative was dying, and my mother then immediately decided everything for herself, but since we a family consisting of three people, we gathered a council , sat down, i was 13 at the time, i was already, as they say, an accomplished adult, too , and my brother was 9 years old, and we immediately said, yes, we are taking vasily, he then went to School Second grade, our family has grown, us. There were four people, and we lived wonderfully happy, and we were friends, we were friends, although he was the youngest, but we took responsibility for him, so. Alina, did your aunt have any other children . Yes, three sons and a daughter, we even have the same birthday. Who is this with . With my sister, with whom i now live with my aunt, with her daughter. We have the same birthday, well, its true that we are from different parents, but i also found out that when i was 13 or 12 years old, i found out that i had more. That my sister, but from my mother, through my biological mother, yes, through my biological moms, i found out that i have a sister, but ah, as they told me, they first said that she died, then they said that she was disabled, uh, when they started searching, well, she must be older than you, uh, yes, as i remember, she was told to me, her name is galya, she. Well, somewhere, well, as i understand it, 30 or above, how old are you now . Im 24. Did your aunt tell you why this girl didnt live with your mother . Well, as we assumed, due to the fact that she was disabled, because of this she did not live with her mother, her mother simply, as we understood, abandoned her, she was its hard to lift her, because your mother herself was seriously ill, but this could be the only reason why your biological mother abandoned your sister, yes, i. Tried to find my sister when they told me that she existed, but i couldnt to find her, i looked for her everywhere on social networks, even if there was the slightest snag , theres a photograph there, something, maybe i found her, what do you think she should look like, well , i think she looks like, well, basically like me, small, blueeyed, well, just like me to my mother, like me, alina, i want you. She was also born in norilsk, and at birth she received the name galina, her mother, what was your name , svetlana, only her last name was not lukyanets, but lukinets. My sister, we dont know this for sure yet, does this girl maria fit that description . Yes, it seems, do you think maria could be your sister . I would be happy. If this is really so, i feel that this is native blood, very similar, just with the birth of children, naturally, the hormonal background of a woman changes with each birth i also had children, with each birth i also changed, and when i was a little younger, i was more like alina than i am now. Irina, what do you think . Yes, it looks like she is very similar to. Her eyes are like this, just like moms , heres part of her chin looks like moms , lets look at the photo of alina marias mother , what do you say, well, the eyes of all my children are simple. Do you admit that the woman who gave you life can look at you with a photograph . Yes, galina, do you think there is any similarity between the woman in the photograph and maria . I dont see it yet, to be honest, of course , i would like it to be sisters, i really want it, but its like the dna will tell, it