it was july 21st, 2015. the kid were now living in their dad's house. >> we woke up to the doorbell ringing. so i go down, i open the door, and he's like, introduces himself as a detective. he's like, we just arrested your dad. >> and just like that, a second parent was gone. the twins still minors were told they'd be living with pam's siblings now. >> rachel and i were taken into dcfs custody, where we were forced to live with them for three months at our mom's house. that was just one huge nightmare. >> it got to be hateful, angry all the time, no matter what we did. >> but, of course, pam's kids knew perfectly well that their aunts and uncles believed their dad killed their mom. >> i was 16 and our aunt diane sat me down alone in my mom's