months before it ever got there. >> by that she means she and ashley fell in love. >> it was a lat of growing up. she-to work through her feelings. being gay isn't necessarily an easy thing and it definitely wasn'tb easy 14/15 years ago. >> oh, no, it wasn't. is there a coming out period? >> i believe it's 2004. she came over to the house and she goes, mama, i've got something to tell you and i just want you to know i was gay. and i said well with, ashley, i already knew it but you need give me some space. i need some time. >> so monica took some time, prayed about it and came to this conclusion. >> i can't imagine god giving me this child and living with her and raising her, that he would