he cooked for the whole team. >> is that the rasta pasta nights? >> the rasta pasta.ta absolutely. i mean, it was a staple of who we were as a group. >> reporter: after the championship season and graduation, nick kept leading. he became a coach and, in 2009, landed a plum job, head soccer coach at clarkson, just minutes from his alma mater. life was good. it got even better when nick, a father of three who'd drifted from his kids' mother, met tandy at that bar. him drinking guinness and diagramming plays on a cocktail napkin.ui what do you think the attraction was, tandy? >> conversation was just -- it was easy. >> the one thing that i liked about tandy, she had goals and ambition. >> reporter: things between the two heated up quickly, as these e-mails attest. from nick, "i miss you millions. have a great work day." from tandy, "i can't wait to get home to you. i ly." i love you. they were sharing a house, blending families, and going on