ranging ages four to 12 to look after. how do you tell the children? >> that was -- i think to this day that is the most difficult thing i've ever had to do. i believe i called the schools and let them know i would be on my way. >> lindsey, the only girl, was the eldest of the lovelace kids. >> i remember being at school and getting a call at the office that i was getting pucked up and i thought maybe my mom is in the hospital. she didn't feel good the day priorer. it's fine. >> but once inside the prunsple's office, her father broke the news. >> and told me my mom died and i remember then on my world crashing down. >> did you say what happened? >> i'm sure i asked what had happened. i just remember crying and not believing it and so we left and