Transcripts For KNTV Today 20130828

Celebrating. Were counting down. Look at how the partys getting larger. Look how excited everybody is. Today we have two balloons. Hey, dont put that number up no, were allowed. What is that number . Look whats happening look at the picture. Youre boobs are hanging lower and so are what about my butt . You got to make that wider, too. If youre going to do it, do it. You know . Its close to your birthday. You yesterday challenged me to something. The challenge was that if i if i say the word and im going to say it once for the rules okay. 60 uhoh every time i say that sorry. We have lined up several little mini drinks we like to call them. Ill do one every time i accidently say that word. Youve already said it. So go. No, i was setting the rules. I do want people at home it help me figure out different ways to say that word because its important that we know ways that we can say it. Please please dont say six decades. Honestly. You want to throw me under a bus, say six decades. Decades. Look at all these people wishing you well. There are people on facebook who gave you all kind of well wishes. One is from charlene dean. She offered some advice. We all get old. You cant stop it, just enjoy life. Its not all about looks. But how you live it. What in the hell does she know . Charlene dont know. Laura meske says, i pray i look that good at 60. Beautiful. She knows a lot. Jenny kaufman says, she need to be giving everyone advice on how to look so hot at 60. I knew youd like this. Anyway, please keep them coming im scared when you do that. You couldnt do it at all. I was doing very well. Now im the older one. This one i think is broken. Must be broken. Im in the fitness mode anyway. What . I am going to just get hotter and hotter all the time. Dont point it at me. Im not. I have lived on the water a long time. Very blessed to live on the water. Finally i did something yesterday that ive never done before. Whats . Lets go to the videotape. Thats me in a kayak. In a kayak. Yes. Did you row that yourself . I was going to get it because i wanted to see what it looked like from the water. Something stupid. We had more fun, christine and i. Oh [ laughter ] that was yes. We did it for over an hour. Now im going to try the paddle boarding. Not in the rain today, but tomorrow im going to try the paddle boarding. Its great for here. Weve been trying to work that. Thats something thats hard to work. Its grossing out jake. Jakes he, may agent. Is hodas deal done yet, jake . All right. Weve got it taken care of, jimmy kimmell, everybody were very sorry. Jiminy cricket, everybodys deals are done. What does he do all day long . He works his patootie off. I bet he gets upset when it rains, what happens to his hair, right, jake . The first time i met jake, i have to point out sorry. It was a monsoon in new york. I was sitting in a restaurant. Jake walked in drenched from head to toe, his suit drenched. He sat in the chair and held the meeting as if everything was normal. I loved it. I loved that. Hes a good guy. Youre very blessed. I know. Very blessed. I know. And you are 60. Hoda. You just said it. Were going to take a brief moment to offer my apologies. Thats my favorite one. You know what a shot is its all the way down. Not that ive ever done one. Oh, my gosh. She did it. Oh, oh 60s good [ laughter ] okay, hoda, woman. This is a first for nbc news, by the way. Oh, my gosh. Do you feel like youre back in kappa kappa gamma . I wanted to try it out. We have a great show ahead. This is a reunion show. Its kids and their parents stop looking at me that way who have not seen each other in years. Its going to be very heartwarming. Who knows what condition hoda will be in by the time we get to that, but its going to be awesome. What are we going to do with the biebester . Justin bieber, hes been having his share of issues. He urinated in that mop bucket, which was gross. He spit on fans from a balcony which was he also spit, didnt he, on the president clintons picture . Yeah. That, too. He said he was sorry, the pres tweeted him back. Anyway, now new pictures of the 19yearold naked only covered by his guitar. According to tmz these pictures were taken in toronto during a thanksgiving celebration in october 2012. He overslept, justin did. And he heard his family was downstairs in the house awake. He decided something fun and amusing would be to go downstairs naked so he could show his grandmother. And he sang in his birthday suit with his guitar positioned strategically in front of him. Everybody has somebody in their family that does that. Frank, i cant get frank to stop doing it. You know . I mean, its just something do you know what . This was a year ago, october. Yeah. Thats the canadian what are you saying . That was sort of the beginning of the bad behavior. I think were going to he did it for his family. Obviously somebody in his family, close friends, should not have leaked that. Right. So he needs to either, you know, find out who in his family is not being faithful or find new friends, which weve talked about for a while now. Yeah. Find some new friends. And gain a little weight. Yeah. He looks too skinny and boney. Looks like a little boy. Put him over your knee like that snap. I also think because his antics are cumulative, its adding up. Once you see it, you go that on top of that on top of that. This is such a great mode of transportation theyre coming up with. Unless youre claustrophobic. Did you hear about the new hyper loop . If you can make it in an mri machine, this might be a perfect thing for you. This takes you 700 Miles Per Hour from city to city, in its infancy. The prototype staging. Yes. 700 Miles Per Hour. They say you can go from l. A. To San Francisco in a blink of an eye. They say half an hour. They also say you can go from new york to l. A. In 45 minutes. New york to china in two hours. You get in the tube, you put your luggage in there. You sit there, it runs take a xanax is what they do first. I guess theres no restroom. Not i. I guess its fast. You might not have to go. At least try to take care of that before you go. Nobody want the hyperloop you didnt think it through and have to go someplace over oshkosh you need to go. Dont do that. Keep in mind, youre going under its all underground and under, i guess, through tunnels under the water. If you like going through the lincoln tunnel i couldnt do it. Do you know what, think about it. It sounds crazy. But there was a day when nobody believed wed fly in the sky or a train that could go across the country or a helicopter the little birdie. Come on youre right. It did sound jetsons. But anything that ket can get you somewhere quickly, part of the pain of traveling is the whole business of you go to the airport. Imagine how quick and easy if you could throw your bags in there, hop in the tube and boom. Never say never. If theres money to be made, somebody will figure it out. The white house photographer has a challenge on he has a challenge on his hands. How old is he . Is he 59 or 61 or somewhere in between . I dont know how old he is. No . Hes snapping photos of how many of them . Of beau, the dog. Bo is 4 years old. Very cute. Hes a portuguese water dog. They took this picture, and you could actually see beau taking a picture of a black dog, and i know this from mine. Is that beau or my doing . Beau, i think. Your dog has white. So does bo. His tummy is white. But on his face. Yeah. His chin. Look look at me. When i try to take pictures of my dog, everything looks the same. Okay, that one looks pretty good. That was the flash. Okay. And one eye. How about that . What is that . Its him, okay . You cant hes always looks like a dead bird in the middle of the highway. Thats what that looked like. No sorry. All right, gang. We have a big show ahead of us because youre turning 59 plus 1. Its time for the big reveal. Two lucky ladies of a certain age, we wont mention in front of kathie lee, have been ambushed. Well check the amazing looks right after this. All right. We are well aware, all of us who watch the show all the time, that hoda is a likes to tell a false hood on occasion. Guess what else . We are discovering that she is a cheat. Yes, all of those shot glasses lined up, some have vodka. Others have wawa. Water. What do you have to say for yourself . I want to know whats in that one . This is the real deal, baby. This is the real deal how do you know . I smelled it. Let me smell it. Oh, it is. I have a long show. My sorry thing, you need to apologize to america. I would like to apologize wait, i have a question. When but the ellen show, do you remember when you chugged that grape juice . Yes, but i never said it was wine. Afterwards i said, its grape juice. I dont think. That makes that makes me a liar and a cheat, too. We have another edition of our plaza ambush makeovers. In honor of kathie lee were surprising two women in the crowd over a certain age every day this week. Give me that. Contributor and stylist to the stars, louis vicari. And contributing editor for people, jill martin. Raining again. The weather will be changing. It will be beautiful the rest of the week. We found two great ladies. Were super excited. Both are teachers. First up is diane schatzpeterson, 63 from long island you said 603. That is the word. I heard 60 three. No. All right. She recently lost almost 100 pounds, retired from teaching after 25 years. She wanted a brand new look for this brand new chapter in her life. Lets take a listen to her story. Love this sign because lets go through your bucket list. Lose weight. Lost 90 pounds. Amazing. Retire, buy a camaro which i cant handle. Meet kathie lee and hoda, although kathys misspelled. This is on your bucket list. Why is this so important to you . After buying the camaro, i said i needed to have a change in the way i look driving it. Yeah. You need to look really you look good, but you need to look really hot to drive a camaro. Are you ready for a total change . Absolutely. I am so excited. Okay. Day two, happy 60th klg we have to have a drink. We have to do a shot. I think we have to do that shot. We got 60. You can do it. I dont know whats happening. Okay. Shes here with her sisterinlaw cindy. Hey, cindy. Hello. Please keep the blindfold on until we give you the green light. Here is diane schatzpeterson before. Come on out. Heres the new diane. Isnt she lovely [ applause ] wow all right. Are you ready . All right. Take off your blindfold, cindy. Oh, my god. Amazing. Are you ready it turn around . All right, diane. All right, diane. Spin around here. Look behind you. Oh, my god oh, my god oh, my god, i dont look the same. You look beautiful. Oh, my goodness. Spin around. Look at camera 12. Tell us about the hair. This proves that 60 is young. What did you say . Okay. Okay. Come on, louis. Excited for it. Whoa okay. Now 60, i mean, its working. Covering gray. People choose to or not to. If you want to look younger, it is the way to go. This proves it. The haircut was a short haircut. Richard danning made it a little chiccer. Big difference, hair color. What do you think . Amazing. Oh, my god. Tell us about the dress. I love polka dots, but this is more muted especially for fall. This is by maggie london. Beautiful. The bracelet is bauble bar. Love it. [ applause ] all right. Our second lady is esther martinez. She is 66. And from new braumsfeld, texas. Shes been thinking about changing her look. When we ambushed her on the plaza, she decided to take a chance. What a woman. Lets hear. Esthers flipping out. Were going to talk to her husband, ignacio. Why do you want this for her . Its Something Different that i i would never imagine that would happen. Right. And it did. All right. Esther, can you try to put this into words or still speechless . Speechless. No. Its a great adventure to be here and now to get picked, its even greater to be here. All right. Are you ready for a whole new wife . I should say a different looking wife . Yes. Hes a smart hubby. He waited on that one. Okay. Shes here with ignacio, her husband and sisterinlaw, teresa. And a big bunch of people. Three people that none of us have ever seen before. Lets take one last look at esther before. And lets bring out the new esther. Yes im every woman [ cheers ] wow i love that. Love it. All right. Everybody take off your blindfolds and take a look. Ooh three of you have never seen you before anyway. [ applause ] turn around, take a look at yourself. Oh, my yes. You look hot you look beautiful. This is like no spin around. Louis, tell us about it. Okay. New hairstyle, bridgette. Notice its smooth. It looks younger, fresher. Uhhuh. Softened the color. Got rid of the darkness. Dont be what you are, be what you were. Makeup always makes everyone younger and more alive. Ignacios crying. Aww. Big softie. What are you thinking . Marry me again. Aww. Maybe we can work that out. What about the outfit . Its beautiful. I love turquoise even fall. Has builtin shapewear which is great. Fantastic. He said, marry me again. Diane round of applause. Cheers, everybody. Big winners of our college counterparts contest after this. [ mixer whirring ] my turn daddy, my turn hold it steady now. I know daddy. [ dad ] oh boy, fasten your seatbelts everybody. [ mixer whirring ] bounty selectasize. Its the smaller powerful sheet, that acts like a big sheet. Look one selectasize sheet of bounty is 50 more absorbent than a full size sheet of the leading ordinary brand. [ humming ] [ dad ] use less with the small but powerful picker upper. Bounty selectasize. And try bounty napkins. Bounty selectasize. Easo why do you feel exso tired afterward . Instead of refueled and focused, youre foggy and sluggish. Its that 2 30 feeling again. So how do you get your clear, alert feeling back . Have a coffee. Then another . Do this instead. Take one 5hour energy. In minutes foggy and sluggish is gone. Hello clear and alert. 5hour energy. Take it after lunch. Be clear and alert for hours. On our newly expanded advanced Digital Network, a connection you can count on. At t uverse high Speed Internet offers more speed options, reliability and wifi hotspots than ever. Go to our website below to get uverse high Speed Internet for just 14. 95 a month for 12 months with a 1year price guarantee. Its all the speed you need all at a great price. Our newly expanded advanced Digital Network gives yomore of what you enjoy online. 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This is big. Okay, they are shelby doitzman and christine johnson. I love them they met freshman year of Bradley University in peoria, illinois. I think theyre with us via google hangout. Hey, girls hi, you guys how are you . Were good. How are you guys . Were awesome. Were awesome so are we. Okay, before they are exactly like us twinsies. Yeah. Before we show what youve won, we want to show a little of your submission, okay . Okay. Okay. Just like you we love animals meet kermit. Ahh we have our favorite things. We love music. We have different passions. Im going to be a teacher. Im going to work this corporate communications. Those arent real glasses. Detention. We absolute fools of ourselves. We love food. Hut hut yay in the end, were best friends, too. I love it. They are exactly like us. Twins. We love it. We hear you call yourselves a frouple. A couple of friends . Yes. We might have to steal that. Were going to steal that, kids. We have a frumpy frouple. We are. No, youre beautiful. What do they get, hoda woman . Thank you, sweetheart. Thank you. Pack your bags. Youll spend three days and two nights at the kona kai resort in san diego, california. I love it, can we go with them . The trip includes roundtrip air fare, dinner for two at the waterfront restaurant. Its beautiful. And complimentary parking. And everything is furnished by the resort and marina, what do you think . Oh, my gosh. Were so excited. Stay out of trouble. We dont want to see a mugshot of you. Happy graduation to us. Bye, guys, thanks for being part of it. Thank you very much bye, on. Sweet kids. So young. Get out those tissues, emotional reunions and surprises coming up. Including a mother and daughter who spent four decades apart. They came together thanks to face back after your local news and weather. Were back with more on this tuesday. A halfhour dedicated entirely to reunions. The first was 40 years in the making. We love these stories. A teen mom felt she had no other choice than to give her baby girl up for adoption, hoping they would find each other again one day. Today. Coms kyle michael miller, we love him, is here with the remarkable reunion story. Good morning. Good to see you. Remind me to grab some tissues for this one. Youre about to meet a mother and daughter who spent four decades apart. Thanks to modern technology and determination, they finally found each other all thanks to facebook. This is your great grandmother. Janice lebrun is sitting with three daughters, including the oldest, maureen, whom she placed up for adoption 41 years ago. Im proud to see my daughter found me after all of these years. Its truly a miracle. As a pregnant high school senior, janice believed her baby would have a much better life if a loving family raised her. They came in, and they took her away. I remember looking around the room thinking, what am i going do now . Where is my life going. Maureen grew up 30 miles away from her brother mother as an only child in a happy family. Janice finished high school, got married, and had more kids, but she never gave up on finding maureen. There was never a time on my birthday when i didnt think about her, you know, and wonder, gee, is she thinking about me. Janices other daughters always knew about maureen. Did you ever think that you guys would meet one day . Its something that i always hoped for, but i i honestly never really thought it would actually come true. 14 years ago, janice wrote a letter to her daughter and placed it in her file at the adoption agency. She also left maureen a short note on the genealogy site ancestry. Com, hoping one day maureen would find it. Maureen went on a document hunt and tracked down her birth certificate from the department of vital statistics. When you looked at the birth certificate, what did you think . I have my own identity, and i have my mothers name. Took it in my hand and immediately started to cry. That led her to find both notes from her mother. On facebook she found her sister jens page and clicking on photos was like opening an album to the family shed never seen. In jens photo, she saw another sister, tracy. On tracys page were photos of her younger sister, karen. Through reading the captions and seeing who was tagged in photos, she finally found a picture of her birth mother, janice. I went, oh, my god. Thats my mom. When you look at each other, you can tell youre related. Yeah. Yeah. It was kind of like yeah. I know that nose. The next day maureen called janice at work. She went, oh, my god. Oh, my god. After all of these years, its her. 24 hours later, janice reunited with maureen. Tracy and karen met her for the first time, too. The only missing piece was another sister, jen. Were you nervous, were you excited, scared . Ecstatic. I feel whole again. Means peace of mind and a journey with a new family. What is better than that . Nothings better than that. Janice and her daughter maureen are here with us. Look at you two. Beautiful piece that you did. That was great. Tell us about the reunion moment when you finally locked eyes and got to see each other in person. I opened the front door to my daughters house, and she was pulling in. And i dont think she could park the car correctly. She was so excited. Jumped right out . Jumped right out and flew into each others arms. And how did that hug feel to you, the first hug in so many years . Well, as janice said, i i had trouble parking the car. My cousin, carol, was with me at the time. I think i told you, kyle, at the time i opened the door, and it was like floodwaters. Yeah. Then it was like walking at first as if you were knee deep in water. Couldnt feel couldnt feel the ground beneath you. Yeah, yeah. It was like slow motion through water. Then my brain kind of clicked, and i said, wait a minute. Thats my mother. Yeah. Instead of walking, started to you know, feel the legs go and just ran toward her. Then the siblings. To have like that whole family must have just so surreal. To have sisters you didnt know about. Yeah. To actually like them, too. Oh. Thats even more good news. Yes. Yes. Wow. And finding people on facebook, is that easy . Are people doing that all the time . I think more and more people are doing it. Whats unique to their story is that maureen wasnt even friends with her sisters on facebook. So just because their accounts were open she was able to easily find them, see their photos, read captions, see who was tagged, and then ultimately she found janice. Were so happy for you guys. We are absolutely well have a little more with both of you, okay . Plus another touching reunion and big surprises. Oh. Uhhuh. When we come back. And hodi might say a certain number. Who knows . No, i dont think so. Please. Whats this . Uhh, its my Geico Insurance id card, sir. Its digital, uh, pretty cool right . Maybe. You know why i pulled you over today . Because im a pig driving a convertible . Tail lights out. Fix it. Digital insurance id cards. Just a click away with the geico mobile app. [ male announcer ] bobs heart attack didnt come with a warning. Today his doctor has him on a bayer aspirin regimen to help reduce the risk of another one. If youve had a heart attack, be sure to talk to your doctor before you begin an aspirin regimen. And we are back with janice and maureen, the mother and daughter who reunited with the help of facebook after 40 yea 1. They were saying during commercial break that they discovered they have all kinds of mannerisms and opinions and things that are the same. Well, theyve been waiting for this day for to come for a long, long time. A daughter thats later. Yes. I were going to lead to what was about to happen. You do have mannerisms that youre noticing among each other and among your siblings, is that right . Thats right. What kinds of things . We both talk a lot with our hands. Yeah. Were trying to keep it down today. When we get going. You met two of your sisters, but theres still one that you havent connected with yet, right . Right. Jen . Jen. Where does she live . Right outside of jacksonville, north carolina. Just a matter of time, though. Do you want to should we speed it up . Lets speed up the time frame. Lets bring out jen. Aw nice to meet you. Hi. Do you recognize that nose, too . Yeah. I do, too. So sorry. Have a seat, ladies. Oh yeah. We love our show. It must be this is the first time, right . Yes. Whats it like for you, jen, to see her . I just always wondered if she was okay. And it just its surreal. I just speechless. Oh. Maureen, you have that connect that you seem to have with everyone in your family right here and now. Yeah. Yeah. Oh, yeah. And scotty and ryan and todd are so excited to meet you. That will happen next. My kids and my husband. When did keeps growing and growing. Yeah. When did you realize that you had another sister . What age . I was very young. I was old enough to understand. My mom had always been up front with us about it. Look how emotional mom is with the girls together. Im a mess. Thank you. Have a wonderful day spending it together. Thank you. Enjoy yourselves. Congratulations on coming together as a family. Awesome. Coming up, a daughter meets her father for the very first time. Am i supposed to talk now . Thats after this. Easo why do you feel exso tired afterward . Instead of refueled and focused, youre foggy and sluggish. Its that 2 30 feeling again. So how do you get your clear, alert feeling back . Have a coffee. Then another . Do this instead. Take one 5hour energy. In minutes foggy and sluggish is gone. Hello clear and alert. 5hour energy. Take it after lunch. Be clear and alert for hours. With hotwires low prices, i can cross even more places off my travel wish list. This year alone, i hit new york and texas. See, hotwire checks the competitions rates every day so they can guarantee their low hotel prices. Men hotwire, hotwire. Com. When she was just 14 years old, becca curl was told the man she thought was her father was actually her stepfather. Years later she found out her biological fathers name and sometime after that sent a facebook message to someone she believed to be her dad. Two years passed, and there it was. Finally, a reply from her father. Theyve been talking since june, but theyre about to meet for the very first time. Hi. Were so happy youre with us. Thank you. You have quite the story. Your mom out of the blue you werent asking questions. You had no reason to. She tells you at 14. What was your reaction then . I was really surprised. A little bit shocked, of course. Uhhuh. And then i asked a followup question wanting to know more. And you know, who it was. And she was a little bit guarded with the details. So i just i left it alone because i didnt want to push. A lot of kids who find out news like that, as the years go on, they have a desire to figure it out. . As you were growing older was that something you said, ive got to find him eventually . As y that something you said, ive got to find him eventually . . As you were growing older was that something you said, ive got to find him eventually . As y that something you said, ive got to find him eventually . Yeah. Obviously in your teen years, to find out that kind of information when youre already like who am i, what am i doing you think you know who you are and then you discover not exactly. Yeah. You were a psychology major in college. That had to give you a little pathway to understanding some things. Sure. And i just i just wanted to figure out the pieces of who i was. You get married, you have kids. And you start reaching out. And facebook is such a huge net. Its amazing. So youve put out a message. And you never heard back for a couple of years, did you . Right. I didnt. I sent the message in 2011. And i didnt hear anything obviously until this last june. What was great about it was when i sent the message and i didnt get that initial response, it didnt devastate me. It didnt . It didnt. We dont want to waste any more time. How do you feel that youre going to meet him now . Thrilled. Youve talked on the phone, had communication. This is the first face to face. Yes. You waited until we paid for it basically. Thats really nice, becca. Hey, whatever i can do, right . She is very smart. Come on, everybody. Lets bring around randy out. Meet your daughter. I love you. I love you. I love you, too. Well be right back. Oh, sit down. Sit down. Gosh. Oh, my god. Randy i love randy. Sometimes there are no words, you know. Randy, what are you feeling right now at this very moment . I waited a long time for that. And i guess i got to thank god. Yeah. It was all in his plan for us. Its just this has been the last month and a half, almost two months, have been so awesome. I think for both of us. I know it has been for me. Because you were taking a break from facebook, right . Or you would have found one another earlier. You had gotten off for a while and came back. I got off because i i unfortunately i jumped in with both feet when i do a lot of things. Right. When i get bored a little bit, i quit. So really . You, too . Yes. You, too . Whats it like genetic. Whats it like for you finally laying eyes on your dad . We look alike. Its great. Its awesome. Its really awesome. Its a little weird. Not going to lie. A little weird. But its now youre a grandfather to three beautiful children you havent met yet either. Yep. I cant wait to meet them someday. You went to have a family of your own, as well. I guess youll plan to get together, right . Were talking about that. Dont miss another moment. Little by little. Send us the bill. You guys, thank you very much for sharing this moment. The best we could do. God bless you all. Thank you very much. Awesome. All right, are you hoping to reconnect with a long, lost relative . Get advice to get you started. First, this is today on nbc. Wow, that was the best. If youve ever thought about seeking out a Family Member and creating your own reunion, its not just about figuring out how to get started but you have to be prepared emotionally. We have a private investigator and a family coach with us. You have to follow that. If they hadnt done the work of finding them, then that reunion would not have happened. They both seemed ready, didnt they . They were both ready. The key. Thats the most important thing. Youve taken the time to assess your situation. Your life is in a place where you can accept this. Youre not seeking to fill a void, but youre ready. Expectations can be crazy. Heartbreaking. As an investigator we see this a lot. We do this for a living. We find people all over the world. Reunite families, loved ones. And theres a couple of things that people need to remember. One, facebook is a great tool. You know, with facial recognition coming online now, its going to get a lot easier. Second thing is is ive always found in the over 500, 600 that weve found in the past ten years that that people leave a bunny trail. They leave a little bit of they want to be found. They want to be found. Its very interesting to see that happen and then see them reunite on just facebook alone, but then it can even go further than that. Siblings that happen upon each another online. Weve heard that. What if one is very interested in finding the other but its not reciprocated . That could be the case. Right. I think before you meet you have to think about all of the possibilities for the relationship. Right. You have what youre hoping for, your fantasy. But realize the other person may not be at that place. Its good to slow it down, meet the person where theyre ready, and take the time to build the relationship. There can often be shame involved in Something Like this. Theyre maybe family secrets being held. Sure, we call the back story. Theres always a back story. Always a family dynamics. Thats why we always require our clients when they hire us to come in to a counselor such as katherine and get that counseling before and its so important afterwards. So smart. Things can break down sometimes. Is facebook the best way . It seems like it worked for both of these guys. But is that the way most people are doing it . Facebook technology, you know, we have data bases now. Data mining on your cell phones. Theres so much data mining, ancestry. Com. Ancestry is huge. Theres so many tools for investigators. Then of course, licensed investigators, we have other data bases that we can use that are ten times better that can be good and bad. Yeah. With facebook, you can literally find somebody instantly. Five minutes later, if you have a name, a friend of a friend, and sometimes you need the process to kind of a minute take a breath. You need to slow down and pace yourself even once you have the name and have the interaction. Its good to slow down. Out of those 500 or 600 that youve done, whats the ratio of the ones you were thrilled you had a part in . Im thrilled in all of them because it opens doors. It closes some doors and opens new doors. I think its important for anybody. Healthy all the way around, whether good or bad. Its healthy. Yeah. Thank you both. A pleasure. We appreciate you coming. Have a great tuesday boozeday. Bye. Jeff theyre reality stars. Oh, my god, i love this. From top chef gail simmons. I get attached to them and i crush their dreams week after week. Jeff from shark tank mark cuban. Using your head and following your gut. Jeff were bringing back the rest of the reality guests. She caught my eye. Jeff with never before seen moments. I always think i cant be shocked but every now and again i am. [cheers and applause]. [captioning made possible by Cbs Television distribution] jeff roll it. All right. A little about me. Im recently married. I work with my wife on the show, and im learning how to be a dad to two amazing kids in a blended family. Im hosting a talk show because theres a lot to talk about