do we traffic in fax -- facts, do we set high expectations for our leaders? is it enough our leaders have right policies or do we dare ask they comport themselves appropriately? are we mindful of what others have sacrificed for us. do we seek balance in our lives. do we look for stories of hope and goodness? do we challenge ourselves. put our own position and beliefs on trial? do we test our own assumption, we heard the phrase, that someone is their over worst critic, we don't need more critics, we need honest assessment. we can do that ourselves. the caller does not have to -- calendar does not have to