i don't see it as a weakness i think that's the main danger for a lot of people believing they're not good enough or can't keep up. as i try to stress no one is better or worse just different. the trick is to stay true to yourself and find your own way of getting on in the system. but getting on in the system isn't always easy for children who come from a working class background or an ethnic minority. experts say becoming an executive has less to do with merit than the so-called similarity principle. similarity means that for decades these upper echelons of the are populated by men from the top 4 percent of society they speak the same language and watch their grama they recognise each other by their confident presence and body language so when making