diagnosis of a genetic illness is a shock as much to an individual as to their family members. catlin has come to life to visit friends and her parents when she found out that her breast cancer was genetic it unleashed a series of questions who did the mutation come from until then there had been no known history of the disease in her family. her mother then also had herself tested to find out whether she could likewise develop cancer. while there it was a very staid and boring appointment just terrible. i still remember how afterwards we went and bought some sunflowers of. i might have had something to and i wanted to know who was responsible for illness whether it was me or my husband of course you can't blame anybody and they can't do anything anyway and i