would become one of my biggest heartbreaks, it was college romance, that was our movie. it ended badly. i came up with this idea that she should be in a music video. i called the manager who is wonderful. it was her manager at the time. i give her the whole story on how i had given her the song. she called kim. i had ulterior motives, of course, i wanted to meet her more than anything. but yes, i did want her to be in the music video. she called kim and said this guy called and wants to put you in a music video. she was doing my work, i had no idea. she was a great manager. >> she said yes? >> how long between making the video to you guys becoming husband and wife? >> let's see, we got married the next year. we dated for about a year. we dated for seven months before i got engaged. i realized the clock was