lived through most parents' worst fear. the death of a child. and because of choices he made years earlier, tony feels it's his fault. i come on a nice great to meet you. welcome to meet you. how would you describe your family back then, just a typical middle class family. my wife worked. also my parents watched the kids and you know everything was good. so when did things start to go wrong? probably 12 13 years into the marriage. when tony's marriage crumbled, his kids began to see a darker side of their father always drank, you know, but i was drinking more to the point where i'm having trouble. getting up in the morning