he wants to shake things up, and he's invited me to watch the process. >> lisa. >> hi, mitch. how are you? >> it's a pleasure to meet you. come on in. >> thanks for having me. >> you bet. >> at 47, mitch says he never could crack the code on romance and at a certain point, just gave up. what would you say has been your problem with meeting women? >> there's a lot of noise in my head is the best way to say it, in other words, a lot of don't do this, don't do that, no, you look weird, you look stupid. >> how do you see yourself? >> i see myself as a really great, compassion et, loving, authentic person. i call myself goofy but present myself awkwardly and my hair is this, my nose is that. women want somebody who is confident and alpha but i don't have a clue what that looks like. >> what have you been so afraid