>> movies aren't being made for adults. that's all "the big chill" is really. it's an adult film, and it tries to be as complex as life is. i had wanted to make a movie about something i was observing among my friends. this imagined power we came out of college thinking we had was nonexistent. >> i know you wanna leave me. but i refuse. >> when it first came out, i thought, "well, this will be for this generation. the children of the '60s, this will be very relevant," and then i would meet kids who were in high school 10 years after the movie came out, said, "i love that movie." ♪ please don't leave me, girl, don't you go ♪ >> it's about friendship. it's also about growing up. there's something in its essence that is timeless and universal. >> i'm marrying flap horton tomorrow. i thank god for flap for getting me out of here, and i think if this is your attitude, you shouldn't bother showing up at my wedding.