certain age, and their fantasies are ones we don't often get to see on the big screen. >> no, you're not. >> oh, yes, i am. i am having an affair with agnes adler's husband. >> ahh! >> you have traditionally masculine males who actually listen to and learn from their female counterparts. >> no, see? too much. >> okay. good note. >> that's an irresistible message to the female audience. >> on my wedding night, my mother, she said to me, greek women, we may be lambs in the kitchen, but we are tigers in the bedroom. >> eww, please let that be the end of your speech. >> what is going on here? why isn't anybody ready? the photographer's here. >> the genesis of "my big fat greek wedding" is that i grew up so surrounded by love and