not the least of which is that your client is an iraq war veteran. you know what the file contains. i'm going to run through a couple of these. this writer asked about how they would feel if their child were identified as lesbian, gay, bisexual, year or any other sexuality. kitty shared there's nothing wrong with it, i'm going to love you the same. but i believe you would need to live a chaste life. is that a dealbreaker if the mom says if the son or daughter is lesbian, whatever, they're going to have to be chaste? >> i think it shows that mike and kitty wanted to work with the state and have conversations with their children. this is building a family, this is having a relationship. and instead of allowing that kind of flexibility to happen, massachusetts just decided on an ironclad rule at the beginning, we won't even try to work with you, you're totally excluded from the system. that's both unnecessary and it's unconstitutional. >> here is another. the couple expressed that they are not open to gender-affirming