after much prayer following your prenatal, i felt that i would not be able to develop the personal patient/doctor relationship that i normally do with my patients. this was intended to be a wholistic approach. at some level did you say i guess we're glad she told us because we wanted a full sense of care for the family unit not just for baby bay. >> yes, definitely we're glad we're not in the care of a doctor that doesn't support our family. it would have been really nice of her to let us know that ahead of time. i don't know that we would be sitting here right now if she had let us know ahead of time. i'm sure it would have hurt and we wouldn't have been very happy with it but at least we could have tpd on to our plan to continue to meet with pediatricians and find the one that was a good fit. >> help me interpret another line in the apology letter "i believe that god gives us free choice and i would never judge anyone based on what they do with that free choice."