>> more so on the mental and emotional side. i knew i would get the man bobs and love handles. >> women like those. >> yeah, some do. >> it really did affect my relationship with my wife, me as a dad, my personality. diet affects more than just your weight. it affects you so much more than you think. >> did people treat you differently. when you walk around you look good? did you find that wasn't happening? >> i think some people looked at me differently. i could see the stairs at the grocery store loading my cart up with soda and cereal. >> you loved it, right? >> no one was mean but i felt people were staring at me more. that was the hard part to deal with is self-esteem being out in public or getting out in the shower and covering up in front of my wife. that's how it affected me. >> great story, fit to fat to