relationships, perhaps, with men as you get older. >> i think it all depends upon what your early childhood was like. for me, i did not have a very good upbringing, i was sexually and physically abused by my godmother's husband. and the only stable relationship that i had with a male was with my older brother who was six years older than me. so for me, the trust factor was very difficult because of the lack of relationships. through therapy and through the love of my foster family, i was able to get to a point where i could trust members of the opposite sex. my foster brothers, my foster father, different things like that, and eventually i had boyfriends, i got married, had children, i was able to learn how to trust again. i'm hoping that hannah will be able to get to that point.