and the only stable relationship that i had with a male was with my older brother who was six years older than me. so for me, the trust factor was very difficult because of the lack of relationships. through therapy and through the love of my foster family, i was able to get to a point where i could trust members of the opposite sex. my foster brothers, my foster father, different things like that, and eventually i had boyfriends, i got married, had children, i was able to learn how to trust again. i'm hoping that hannah will be able to get to that point. >> what kind of lessons can be learned from this, in terms of how to spot the warning signs, perhaps, when someone who is a trusted family friend does start to develop an unhealthy interest or obsession or infatuation with a young women, what do you think should happen in that situation some. >> from the media reports that i