problem is. they can handle it better. that's why we should be paying -- we should provide tax credits for people who stay home to take care of their loved one because they're the one moss ha -- ones who have the greatest impact on their physical health, their mental health, their attitude, that keeps them from being panicked. i just think it's all about just holding on. people just want to know, want to know. hope never dies. hope never dies. and the moment you're alone the hope fades and that's when it is absolutely terror. and so i'm not sure i'm inningsing your question but that's how i feel about it and i think the health care plans have to be available so your friend for the rest of her natural life gets all the care she needs and has the comfort that she's not isolated and left alone. there's nothing worse, all of you know when you have a problem