in congress and that's leading by solving big problems for the american people. >> and it is a leading to -- i mean, we have seen rhetoric lead to violence. but we are in -- even of late, not even talking about january 6th for a moment but even of late, today, we heard the congressman debbie dingell's district office was just vandalized. and there is much more to learn about exactly what happened there. but you have also talked about threats to your office and to you, personally, that you have received over the past year. and the question then becomes, as you said, this rhetoric must stop. but how do you bring the temperature down? because it doesn't seem like anything is working. >> i think what i was raised by a mother who had a strong faith and a belief. single mom with 11 older brothers and sisters. you -- you do it by turning the other cheek. you do it by leading, by willing to listen to people. disagree with them. stand up to them, especially when you adamantly and passionately disagree with them but do it with respect. do it by listening. and do it in a way that shows