aristocratic society and within the royal family, as a woman, you still wanted to be perceived as unblemished as a virgin, as not having a lot of gossip around you. >> there had been so many wonderful young women in charles's life at that point but it was expected of charles to marry someone that came from a certain social strata that ticked all the boxes, yes, she was expected to be a virgin. >> in july, 1980, diana's life begins to change dramatically. charles had been playing polo in petworth in sussex. diana receives this invitation and she immediately packs her bags and goes. and charles was told that she