coming out to the wedding from back east, i had some real apprehensions about it. what's this gonna look like? two girls getting married. you have to make a decision, are you going to have a daughter that you are going to maintain a very wonderful relationship for the rest of your life. or are you going to lose that child? this was a situation that i had to come to understand. once we got out to california and we saw how happy they were, all that trepidation just seemed to go away. that you know, that was a big big turning point. of course walking jill down the aisle, just looking at her, she was breathtakingly beautiful.