i think there is self— replicating misogyny that girls show to other girls, _ like, why haven't you put make—up on today, or you've put too much make—up on today. l i think there is a great pressure to conform to a certain standard of, for example, outfit or body type or make up. and the access is all around them and it's 24/7. they have not got the ability to switch off. let's bring in the panel. annabel denham, deputy comment editor at the telegraph, and seema mehta, political writer at la times. depressing listening to this stitches there, what you make of it? unfounded but definitely the case that online pornography and degrading depictions of sex is teaching particularly with teenage boys to take you make of how to think about relationships as exploitative and they want to be the last we hear of it. teachers of raise concerns about sexist language increasing in schools, there have been research papers finding social media algorithms are amplifying misogynistic content to teenagers and it's a very real concern and the problem that we have as a society is that today's children are the first generation to be truly growing up online. their guinea pigs in that regard. it is time goes on, the harms that it is causing is becoming more apparent in the psychologist has charted the experience of growing up has been transformed over the last couple of decades from children playing outdoors in the real world to a phone —based childhood in which children are living their lives indoors and online through tiny screens and that is potentially rewiring their brains and i think it's going to be an enormous pressure on policies to do something about it in the uk will have an online safety act which passed through parliament last year and ranging piece of legislature which tried to ensure big tech companies were coming down on this and younger people exposed to and whether this makes a difference, i worry now that the genie is really out of the bottle and there are some politicians on the uk client for smartphones and social media to be banned among the other sixteens in florida said something similar for children under the age of 14 and perhaps this is the road that we will go down and it is just a question of how politicians walk the tightrope between protecting young people and trying not to assume the role of parent and let parents do what they think is best for their offspring. what they think is best for their offs-urin. what they think is best for their offs-rin, ,, , what they think is best for their offs-“in. ,, , ,, offspring. same issues in the us and annabelle is — offspring. same issues in the us and annabelle is just _ offspring. same issues in the us and annabelle isjust outlining _ offspring. same issues in the us and annabelle isjust outlining this - offspring. same issues in the us and annabelle isjust outlining this and l annabelle is just outlining this and would you make of some of the potential ways to tackle this? the exact same _ potential ways to tackle this? the exact same thing here and not only did it _ exact same thing here and not only did it affect teenage boys, and also in terms _ did it affect teenage boys, and also in terms of— did it affect teenage boys, and also in terms of body image and what they believe _ in terms of body image and what they believe expectations are that are completely not normal and based on really _ completely not normal and based on really dangerous pornography in that kind of— really dangerous pornography in that kind of thing. there have been legislative attempts to talk about this and _ legislative attempts to talk about this and tried to deal with it but it's difficult to see how it seems so much — it's difficult to see how it seems so much is _ it's difficult to see how it seems so much is already out there, how do you put— so much is already out there, how do you put the _ so much is already out there, how do you put the toothpaste back in the lube _ you put the toothpaste back in the lube yet, — you put the toothpaste back in the tube. yet, you age restrictions for children_ tube. yet, you age restrictions for children of— tube. yet, you age restrictions for children of that age are much more technologically advanced than many of us here _ technologically advanced than many of us here are and are much better at getting — of us here are and are much better at getting around things like that in socinl— at getting around things like that in social media platforms arty have a -e in social media platforms arty have age limiis— in social media platforms arty have age limits of its every day the kids .et age limits of its every day the kids get in _ age limits of its every day the kids get in it's— age limits of its every day the kids get in. it's finding a legislative fix that— get in. it's finding a legislative fix that seems very difficult area of the _ fix that seems very difficult area of the social media companies more broadly— of the social media companies more broadly the — of the social media companies more broadly the amount of content that is out _ broadly the amount of content that is out there on the internet, i don't — is out there on the internet, i don't know_ is out there on the internet, i don't know how you get rid of that and that's— don't know how you get rid of that and that's the million—dollar question— and that's the million—dollar question that i don't think anyone is the _ question that i don't think anyone is the answer to. we have covered a lot of donald trump on this programme over the years, but here's one that's unique. there's a new expose in town on the former president and his recreational activities — a skillset he's exclusively shown to his golf club members at bedminster and mar a lago axios reveals the former president might have a budding dj career. you can see trump here at his dinner table spinning the decks, or rather scrolling through his ipad and spotify playlist. the regulars here call him "dj t" as he blasts his tunes at, quote, "extremely loud volumes". so what's trump jamming to these days? jesus christ superstar plays from broadway tunes to old school bangers, among his other spotify playlist hits are ymca, it's a man's world, phantom of the opera, elvis, lionel richie, and guns n roses. let's speak to margaret hartmann, who is a senior editor at new york magazine's intelligencer. inches for he is at one of his resorts and what is going on?— he is at one of his resorts and what is going on? for the past two years, he has been — is going on? for the past two years, he has been playing _ is going on? for the past two years, he has been playing dj _ is going on? for the past two years, he has been playing dj during - he has been playing dj during parties, during dinners and he is not spending any turntables or doing anything, just keeping an ipad open during dinnerand anything, just keeping an ipad open during dinner and hooked into a spot if i play list and is connected to the speaker system and he is picking and choosing music that he likes and blasts to get rather loudly, is what we're hearing. blasts to get rather loudly, is what we're hearing-— blasts to get rather loudly, is what we're hearing. how do we know this, first of all? — we're hearing. how do we know this, first of all? members _ we're hearing. how do we know this, first of all? members or— we're hearing. how do we know this, first of all? members or post - we're hearing. how do we know this, first of all? members or post videos | first of all? members or post videos on their instagram _ first of all? members or post videos on their instagram and _ first of all? members or post videos on their instagram and on _ first of all? members or post videos on their instagram and on tick-tock| on their instagram and on tick—tock and bragging about look, i had dinner with donald trump and the music was great and they seem to enjoy it and we've also heard it's even more regular now, is to be occasionally parties and that seems to be quite frequent every time he is downstairs having dinner at the club. ., . ., , is downstairs having dinner at the club. ., .., , ,., , is downstairs having dinner at the club. ., , , ., club. revert a couple songs for -la in: club. revert a couple songs for playing and _ club. revert a couple songs for playing and what _ club. revert a couple songs for playing and what are _ club. revert a couple songs for playing and what are the - club. revert a couple songs for playing and what are the kind l club. revert a couple songs for| playing and what are the kind of things, is there anything we can read into any of his choices? he considers _ read into any of his choices? he: considers himself a music aficionado and i let others be thejudge of that and there are some music that get people going at weddings. he likes elvis, he likes 80s music, he throws and broadway tunes and a big favourite and memories from cats and he really enjoys ymca and he has gone on at length about how much he likes it. he said it really gets the people going and i do agree with that. it's similar to what he plays it his rallies and mar—a—lago and it's a personal experience or him. what is going on and what do you make of this? it what is going on and what do you make of this?— make of this? it does remind me of donald trump _ make of this? it does remind me of donald trump rallies _ make of this? it does remind me of donald trump rallies are _ make of this? it does remind me of donald trump rallies are the - make of this? it does remind me ofl donald trump rallies are the musical choices— donald trump rallies are the musical choices are _ donald trump rallies are the musical choices are very— donald trump rallies are the musical choices are very eclectic _ donald trump rallies are the musical choices are very eclectic and - donald trump rallies are the musical choices are very eclectic and enjoys i choices are very eclectic and enjoys dancing _ choices are very eclectic and enjoys dancing around _ choices are very eclectic and enjoys dancing around the _ choices are very eclectic and enjoys dancing around the stage _ choices are very eclectic and enjoys dancing around the stage and - choices are very eclectic and enjoys dancing around the stage and he i dancing around the stage and he seems _ dancing around the stage and he seems to— dancing around the stage and he seems to be _ dancing around the stage and he seems to be having _ dancing around the stage and he seems to be having a _ dancing around the stage and he seems to be having a good - dancing around the stage and he seems to be having a good time| seems to be having a good time i imagine _ seems to be having a good time i imagine three _ seems to be having a good time i imagine three somewhere. - seems to be having a good time i imagine three somewhere. we i seems to be having a good time i. imagine three somewhere. we look forward _ imagine three somewhere. we look forward to— imagine three somewhere. we look forward to seeing _ imagine three somewhere. we look forward to seeing him _ imagine three somewhere. we look forward to seeing him on— imagine three somewhere. we look forward to seeing him on the - forward to seeing him on the campaign _ forward to seeing him on the campaign trail. _ forward to seeing him on the campaign trail.— forward to seeing him on the campaign trail. people who don't want them _ campaign trail. people who don't want them to _ campaign trail. people who don't want them to be _ campaign trail. people who don't want them to be president - campaign trail. people who don't| want them to be president again, campaign trail. people who don't - want them to be president again, his talent _ want them to be president again, his talent will_ want them to be president again, his talent will be better spent djing and nonetheless, they could be interesting to hear anybody try to seamlessly transition from something like ymca _ seamlessly transition from something like ymca to the rolling stones to memories from cats. might make good point, _ memories from cats. might make good point, i_ memories from cats. might make good point, idon't— memories from cats. might make good point, i don't know whether we've .ot point, idon't know whether we've got any— point, i don't know whether we've got any mixes to see exactly how skilled _ got any mixes to see exactly how skilled and adept he is or infect is not an— skilled and adept he is or infect is not an elected this is potentially going _ not an elected this is potentially going on— not an elected this is potentially going on for a of years, did you say? _ going on for a of years, did you say? ht— going on for a of years, did you sa ? �* . , going on for a of years, did you sa ? . ., , ., going on for a of years, did you sa? going on for a of years, did you sa ? r ., , ., , ., , , say? at least two years, they were advertising a _ say? at least two years, they were advertising a mar-a-lago - say? at least two years, they were advertising a mar-a-lago not - say? at least two years, they were i advertising a mar-a-lago not keeping advertising a mar—a—lago not keeping it a secret, they're all advertising to come to dinner tonight and donald trump would be there.— trump would be there. mar-a-lago, what is this — trump would be there. mar-a-lago, what is this a — trump would be there. mar-a-lago, what is this a resort _ trump would be there. mar-a-lago, what is this a resort in _ trump would be there. mar-a-lago, what is this a resort in the _ trump would be there. mar-a-lago, what is this a resort in the kind - trump would be there. mar-a-lago, what is this a resort in the kind of. what is this a resort in the kind of people who are there and how do you getin? people who are there and how do you net in? ., ., ., , ., people who are there and how do you et in? ., ., ., , ., , get in? you have to be a member and it cost several — get in? you have to be a member and it cost several hundred _ get in? you have to be a member and it cost several hundred thousand - it cost several hundred thousand dollars a year to be a member there and it's a historic state in florida the donald trump is built up around a golf course. in parties and having dinners and is also a golf club there and he lives there now. that is his primary residence. he doesn't want to live in new york any more. it is absolutely probably the last story i expected this evening but absolutely delighted that we have all been subjected to that and thank you very much coming on the programme and talking us through it in the panel. around the world and across the uk, this is bbc news. now, it's time for the panel. let's bring in the panel: annabel denham deputy comment editor at the telegraph and seema mehta, political writer at la times. i want to talk about tim's water, the largest water company and a quarter of the british population and it has been marred in controversy in recent months and it seems to be going from bad to worse. now, its shareholders say they will not provide the utility company with a £500 million lifeline of what the regulator has rejected its plans to fill its funding short of by raising bills by as much as 40% for its customers and so, the whole situation is a complete mess and what is interesting is the public and political response to this because particularly from the left, there's no pressure to re—nationalize the water companies which were privatised during the margaret thatcher era. the reports of leaks, but sewage being poured into rivers and the lack of investment in large part, a victorian water system that we have in britain today and all of that is a major issue but actually, much of the responsibility can be placed on the responsibility can be placed on the regulator and what we want in britain is below bills but also massive amounts of investment in our water infrastructure and we cannot have both and the problem if we do get down to the re—nationalization route is to forward. it would cost a huge amount of money from the get—go and for the taxpayer footing the bill in the second is once it's re—nationalized in the backing and the government hands, it will be competing against other government departments for capital spending and it will be going up against the nhs, education, welfare and even defence network which is having pressure of increased spending will be very far down the pecking order and we will not get that investment that we desperately need i think we have to have a fundamental rethink of what expectations are of water companies in terms of their responsibilities to build payers and responsibilities to build payers and responsibilities to the environment but i'm very nervous about going down the re—nationalization route. nervous about going down the re-nationalization route. you're worried about _ re-nationalization route. you're worried about the _ re-nationalization route. you're - worried about the re-nationalization worried about the re—nationalization route but annabel, you mentioned the quandary of you wanting below bills is a water bill payer but he also got lots of investment and what is the answer there? i got lots of investment and what is the answer there?— the answer there? i think bills are auoin to the answer there? i think bills are going to have _ the answer there? i think bills are going to have to _ the answer there? i think bills are going to have to go _ the answer there? i think bills are going to have to go up _ the answer there? i think bills are going to have to go up and - the answer there? i think bills are going to have to go up and i - going to have to go up and i appreciate that people will balk at the idea of them increasing by a0%. but i think over time, it is in their roads going to have to grow accustomed to and we need significant investment in our water system and that has been, if you look at what happened in the 19905 when these companies were privatised, there was initially a lot of investment and improvement made to 0fwat water system but that is tailed off ma55ively in recent years. so, we need to regain the zeal that we had 30 years ago to ensure that we do not have any more damage to the environment that we have fewer sewage 5pill5 damage to the environment that we have fewer sewage spills and so on. and thames water at the moment is in a poor state and there is a solution to the problem mattered whether problems of the regulator but it is also the fact that they've racked up an enormous debt around 1a billion when the revenues were about £2 billion and you can see why there in the mess there and in serious mismanagement and some heads of the world and i suspect others may in the question now is will he be put into special administration and with the government need to step in and thatis the government need to step in and that is possible in the short term but i just would that is possible in the short term but ijust would not that is possible in the short term but i just would not want that to be a long—term solution. but i just would not want that to be a long-term solution.— a long-term solution. time for the anel, a long-term solution. time for the panel. the — a long-term solution. time for the panel, the floor _ a long-term solution. time for the panel, the floor is _ a long-term solution. time for the panel, the floor is yours. - a long-term solution. time for the panel, the floor is yours. this - a long-term solution. time for the panel, the floor is yours. this is i panel, the floor is yours. this is far less serious _ panel, the floor is yours. this is far less serious and _ panel, the floor is yours. this is far less serious and related to l panel, the floor is yours. this is . far less serious and related to what i will far less serious and related to what i wi