And yet those other counselors in her conservative group are willing to readmit or even though she's done wrong but we have contacted Margaret stone for comment but we haven't heard back from a yet now the search is on for a missing pygmy go need dear I'm Stanley is gray and white he ran off into the woods hauling him at the weekend as he was being picked up to go to his new home Malcolm Joyce is helping to look for him he says it's no good trying to approach Stanley he's in the the fields behind Barry's line there's a school day I believe and he was last seen it with so he's within that would say area probably tired and laying down if you approach him he will run so would rather you just contact this let's come out and see if we can find him and b.t.s. Has won 3 awards at this year's m.t.v. Europe Music Awards inspiring they claimed best group best live act and biggest fans are also wins for Little Mix and Liam Gallagher Well done to their b.b.c. Radio Norfolk news there's more at 10. P.c. Radio in Norfolk weather thanks for your weather for the day ahead his k. Can sell some sunny spells and scattered showers today could get one or 2 quite heavy showers for a time in my hair a rumble of thunder but will get some really nice sunny spells between a gentle Eastley breeze and temperatures between 9 and 12 Celsius starting off dry tonight in clear but then it will become cloudy with a chance of more showers out an overly breeze develops $3.00 to $6.00 Celsius the minimum then to more a staying largely cloudy some showers but a brisk northerly wind develops and temperatures getting up to 12 Celsius on k. Can set up with your b.b.c. Radio but whether. It's Chris calling with it until 10 o'clock across the Jackson will be here in this part of the program or style do you wish it looked after your taste that we're going to look at whether we take the health of our mouths and our teeth seriously enough for in this country because so we're somewhat We are about this morning has been hearing from the Norfolk dental surgery which is trying. To find the county's most nervous patient The aim is to try and encourage people to make sure that you visit your dentist or even if you're scared while he sat in the chair we heard from him a few moments ago we got another interview that he's done with a psychotherapist who believes he can you can deal with your fear of going to the dentist so a few things we'd like to hear from you on this morning how long is it since you've been to the dentist can we find dad at the north a person with the biggest gaps not in the in the terms of their teeth but in terms of visits to the dentist why have you left it so long what is there to be scared off because I go every 6 months or every 9 months which is a nice buy this. Enjoy going but I've certainly have never been frightened one of the bad experiences you've had that have made you frightened and maybe you got stories of just being glad you went and other things have been picked up on by the dentist or is it something we take seriously enough our 803897321 is the number to call you can text me 813 double 3 Start your message with the word Norfolk are you Norfolk's most nervous patient when it comes to the dentist if you are we think we could be able to help you or at least put you in touch with somebody who can and tell me how long it is since you've been to the dentist and why you've left it for so long what is there to be scared off over 803897321 text 813 double 3 start the message with the word Norfolk and I'll give you one b.b.c. Radio guarantee. I'm not going to play that drill sound effect again played earlier on this morning and I realize too much for this town the morning no one wants to hear dentist drill I've got it so I could but I don't we will do that here between now and 10 o'clock what was to be worried about why do you leave it so long before going to the dentist surely it's something we should all be doing more often give us a shout and we'll talk about it too now in 10 o'clock. Just . Like. That's Prince and When Doves Cry would you believe I've actually got a story about Prince star can relate back to teeth try not trying to tell later on in the program there is a story that links Prince with a trip to the dentist which I will try and remember to bring you later on because what we're talking about in this part of the program if you weren't with us about 20 minutes ago the only thing that was on b.b.c. Radio Norfolk I think we were all listening to was what he Web having a dental check of we we really put it out and it was actually very interesting and Wally of course got a full clean bill of health and we all learned a little bit about what it means when the dentist is saying things to the system while you're having a checkup in the dentist chair and the reason we're talking teeth this morning is because there's a dental surgery in Norfolk that is looking for the county's most nervous patient at the aim is to try to encourage you to visit the dentist more often and try to get over whatever it is you're scared of what he's had a check up this morning it was fine is in one piece so. Dental practice certain in origin as noticed that lots of people are putting their health at risk because of dental phobia so they've teamed up with a psychotherapist to offer one patient a course of phone. Be a treatment in the hope of curing their faith for good so what we had is check up and then we caught up with psycho therapist James Britain and he's going to be offering the course of treatment for the person who is deemed to be Norfolk's most nervous patient with the dental practice with Dr Sharma and what what are you looking for we're looking for the most scared person. And we want to prove that. We can convert that person into someone who doesn't feel fair coming to the dentist someone who can have a smile on their face feel no fear for embarrassment and really have a transformational experience and you're trying to run your practice this way to be kind and caring to people through it that's one of my missions I do a lot of charity work in Syria and see the. Try to get take children are very dental pain and it's one of those sort of causes that are brought back here that I like to practice what we call pain free dentistry and that ties in nicely with a great person Jim. Jim Britain who has basically been helping people in the county and around the area for the last 20 plus years and he shares a similar ethos to how we want to treat people Jim what are your qualifications for this oh I qualified back in 1905. Before you were born so. I thought well qualified in the therapy. And then I studied transactional analysis and n.l.p. My tickler time out to join the corporate world got another view of life but I've come back to Norfolk and. First off thank you so much for inviting us on to this because I'm really passionate mental health has had a bum rap over the last few years what for a long time recently with people like our young royals William and Harry and a local boy Stephen Fry. It's got a lot more recognition but people are still reluctant to make that jump because I mean if you go if you're a sore knee going to the doctor but if you've got something mentally wrong. It takes a lot of guts and I am so passionate and thrilled when people come and see me and I can help them make that change quickly and simply and working to go to him getting people to see the dentist it's so exciting because people been suffering you know with pain which is far far worse than the pain that they main counter when they see people like go to. Overcome that fear simply by talking them through it. There's 2 techniques that I that I use one is a thing called n.l.p. And I actually got a couple of minutes to talk about this and one minute you're saying and and difficult to do that what would be great is if we did the job and we got somebody who would actually succeeded we succeeded in helping to come and talk to you about what we do but it's basically people who have a phobia fear that they're I think all of the case in the season which means that you see it and then you feel it you know it's just triggered off by that and it's done unconsciously so. We get people to disassociate from that So step back and do things differently so they can associate more pleasurable feelings than the new. I get a feeling that with with with the don't. Not to look forward to going to the dentist not to be fearful of it absolutely I mean I think if we're honest most of us actually have some sort of anticipation about seeing the dentist but we're talking about those people who have. Terror and it's so disabling for them. Britain has the psychotherapist who's offering to help you if you are most nervous patient about going to the dentist certainly if that's you tell me how long it is since you last saw your dentist and why you left it so long because I can understand why it's not something to look forward to you don't exactly count the days until you go to the dentist but to be frightened of it what is there to be scared of 803897321 of not ask about this so let me ask you know how are you with the dentist not to bother you they are always I've always gone since I was little and I just kind of desensitized to it really it's like a little it's a trip out to get to talk to some people and I get my get reports now I want to go to the menu so much so that you don't ever get out unless you get this what do I do if I do get they get a little report back now and it has smiley faces on how good your teeth are so it's like a section for gums and I have a smiley face it's good it's great once you get over the edge about 10 it's really shocking stickers of the dentist and probably you just feel bad for well if it works it keeps you going member maybe that's what it takes my life to give us all stickers when we do go to the dentist what is there to be scared of Are You the person that's gone the longest without going to the dentist in Norfolk or 803897321 you can text 813 double 3 Start your message with the word no. 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Radio 4 yes that's the way we do things here with they they tell us it's a song for the weekend we'll play in a month and we do what we like here teeth in this part of the program or 803897321 The search is on for the person in Norfolk who's most nervous about going to the dentist so I'm going to talk to Brian in a moment who may well have a horror story for us about why he was one of the worst dental patients but 1st let's bring in Tim Spera who's looking at your your messages it seems that your techs are coming in when it comes to take so Tim Let us know what are people saying when it comes to dentistry because what we're looking for Norfolk's most nervous patient when we are indeed Mark says I haven't been to the dentist since 19 Eighty-Four I still have all my teeth and I've never had a filling I also had never never had any bother say I never bother going well actually that's an interesting way of looking at it because if you don't have a sore leg you don't go to the doctor so why should you only go to the dentist we're encouraged to go every 6 months yes. I know I don't I interesting when his name and he says My dentist is based at the local cottage hospital we usually guy that together every 6 months for a check up but my wife has to game will frequently My wife usually tells me when our point is and the dental receptionist usually brings her mind however my wife told me that I should have gone to the dentist the day before I didn't nice around the dentist to explain getting my telephone number so I could bring back but so far they've not rung me. And text 5751 says I have been to the dentist for over 25 years I pass out when I hear the wrestling at the needle wrap it all say why do they have to poke all the teeth with a metal Prada before they do anything else it's horrendous says Tony that I think that's to test your gum health I'm pretty sure I'm just interest in what people are scared of what to do they're scared of don't know what. I'm not but of we would go to the dentist Bob Just remember to run without missing actually missing an appointment and I did once miss a dentist for I may and they they they don't think very much of you when you do that I don't want some cash of you know. I think they just told me off the next time I went you know why Mr. No why do you remember during the Iraq War that day that the Saddam Hussein statue got pulled down yes that was happening it was all live on the t.v. And I got so into a watch and I thought. Well when I found that often explains I don't go down very well about anyone here that was that was the only reason I've ever had from genuinely missing a dentist appointment. Bryan is on the phone let's talk to Brian hello Well old man and could you beat Norfolk was patient when it comes to the dentist I used to be what I'm going to our web good dentist when I was more young when I was so by 18 ish and I went and sat in the chair and the dentist coronated my Garmin for some unknown reason it broke and I'll sit there until it actually got numb so he'd pull out that I wouldn't lay before him cause you know. Anyways so that all went off and made me really really nervous about going to a dentist Well about 3 or 4 years ago I went to the dentist and I had to have a. Say in the chair and the desk looked at me I said I must warn you I don't like then she said nobody. Sat there and she was Pradhan about and I could feel all needles I'm not needle saying that she was testing me gums where you said. And I said I must warn you that I do dislike needles immensely she said. I don't know why she said I've just done the needle bit and she'd start this Native American with a even knowing wow that was hope that was hoping the set was but I think in the days when that needle broke off in my gum they were a lot bigger needles that such minute needles now you can hardly see them turn bright your message to the people of Nova scared of the dentist says don't be scared don't be scared and the nurse said to me she said the most nervous part of you coming to dinner and this was driving in the carpark. Yeah I wonder once you're there you're there yeah and now another little chip I had from somebody said when you go and have a take a tea bag with the one you chose as you leave it don't put the tea bag at your bios and gently by for at least a half an hour and that takes all the pie and blood and everything why did it what I always take the table. You know you take a tea bag with you to the dentist on any particular time teabag order to whatever I used it was a little round ones I bet not a big one. As I don't need to pay back then I'll have a cup when I get home what if you do need it and you've got to spend the next half an hour walking around don't people say Brown you got teabag an e-mail that people pick up on that sort of thing I'll just say well I have not it's up. I will now you if you keep your mouth shut nobody knows it's in there you know you just keep a map and you want to say hello just. Got Never before has felt so there's felt so never to get a bag if you're going to have a tooth out take a teabag but at least that would be what about doing this program and I think the phone lines is you find out things and you get bits of advice that you would never get anywhere else thank you to Brian fake and was one scared of the dentist he's not now because the last time he went they did the whole business with a needle and he said Aw don't like it when when you going to do the bit with a needle and I said well we've done it didn't even notice that's brilliant and what is there to be scared of at the start of that phone call be honest with you at the start that phone call from Brian I was regretting the whole thing when he starts tell a story about needles breaking I thought we're going to end up putting everybody of ever going to dentists again but. It came around the other way and Brian telling us to take this with you take nothing else with you from this program today apart from the missing that we heard about earlier on if you go to the dentist have a tooth out always take a tea bag with you and you can put that in your mouth and 8 solving problems the problem. Had a story. I'll take you from Prince to the dentist and I'm a mushroom I'll do it now because Officer otherwise Kaylee are you do you know the foreman or city play you and Roberts you know he's most famous not only for being a very good footballers going lots of girls for an hour each but he had his 2 front teeth knocked out quite a lot of his career and then has false ones but for most of his career he was taking them out so he was a gap to strike us all in smiles his goal celebrations there were no front teeth and that was what he was his trademark everyone go don't you know Roberts if you not know it said he found you and Roberts is the footballer who had no teeth now we had him in on the scrimmage a few years ago and we got him to tell the story of losing his teeth and it was all the backlash of head on Elbow something on the pitch during a game and had to go to the dentist to get sorted out and he said that while the the it was all being cleaned up and the rest the teeth were being taken out and he was being sorted the dentist was listening to Prince and the surgery and I think it was was it Purple Rain I think it was parked right every time he is that song it takes about an arm laying there and what a thing. So just goes to show you can you can trace everything back to the dentist can't you we've got we've got dusty on the line who is going to tell us about her dentist in just a minute but 1st. Hopefully Whitman the idea was to tell you there's nothing to be scared of but maybe we're putting people off the dentist Anyway here's Kayla I keep looking my teeth like the same old morning every time you they don't there is very it was the last year came I think seem to be calming down at the moment it's a little bit busy towards knowledge on the day I'm very as an unmarried coming in a bit so as well still towards the south Gates roundabout in King them but if you spot anything else only 80389732 see one. You go to 04 and after 6 he will be going out in the countryside a full countryside hour literally in the countryside or recorded entirely on Christina's farm so that is something to look for to get into Day His program starts out for let's go and talk dentistry now. With the state he's on the phone we're looking for no fix most nervous patient today dusty What do you want to come to going to the dentist was not so much now Chris No Well I'm very very blessed because for years I've had a wonderful thing to but I still don't like it I'll be honest and I don't like to teach very much open is cut right in she has said I mentioned earlier on you so have to when you talk about safety Oh absolutely Anyway the story that put me off and made this in the very 1st place when I was a kid I went to the dentist and he said you can tell it's a so only skin head and we said can I come back next week and then he said no you can't man was there and he said no you count and so I did run and he chased me to truly ram surgery I will tell you I didn't know it was but I know I certainly tried to leg it from the dentist who did it yeah but he got me and