Tebatso Ramafalo tells it like it is in her book! By Desmond Boshego TEBATSO Ramafalo used her horrible relationship experiences to publish her first book, The Return Soldier. The 37-year-old divorced mum of three from Hwelereng Village in Ga-Mphahlele, Limpopo, saidthe book is about a story of marriage gone wrong, endless abuse, fights and a bitter divorce. The Return Soldier was published by Vhakololo Press. She said: “The story is told in clear, no-nonsense language, peppered with humour, pain, a quest for healing and loving again.” The divorcee decided to write about all the challenges she’d faced in her failed marriage, and how she felt after the break-up.