MINNEAPOLIS â She thought Sean Tillmann was joking.
Walking to his house from nearby Grumpy's Bar after he invited her over for a cigarette, the woman warned Tillmann that she had a boyfriend. That nothing would happen between them.
"Don't worry," she remembers him replying. "I'll just [masturbate]," he said, using a vulgar term. And she laughed.
But when the singer known as Har Mar Superstar emerged from a bedroom on that April 2017 night in northeast Minneapolis, he was naked and masturbating, said the woman, whose name is being withheld to protect her identity.
She said Tillmann apologized and got dressed, but later grabbed her, tried to take her clothes off and began masturbating again, despite her saying "stop" â an account corroborated by a friend who was at Grumpy's that night and traded emails with her after the incident. "I never wanted to, intended to, or was OK with anything physical happening with him," the woman said in one of the emails, shared with the Star Tribune.