Half a million rubles, but why does sergei avoid paying alimony, because he believes that the son is not his, he has nothing to do with him not similar either in appearance or in character, thats how he thinks so, and his wife there didnt let him communicate with him, well, in general, i really think that this is not his son either, because he really doesnt look like him at all when. Sergei told me , went for retraining, and came home once, then she told him that she was 3 weeks pregnant, no matter how the dates coincided, sergei himself calculated it, he told me, too, and how he and i would calculate it, he even more so said that it was not mine, according to my calculations , the dates also do not coincide, since you are you sure that. Your mans child does not look like him, it turns out that you have seen the boy . Yes, i saw a boy, what is his name . Kiril, how old is he . 18, then what elements can we talk about . Because he had a debt, since he was 6 years old, that sergei, that since 6 years old, that he said that he suspected that his son was not his, thats because he didnt look like him, and he didnt pay Child Support, so it was formed for. Position anatoly, if the child is already 18 years old, and the father has a large alimony debt, who should this go to . The debt, to whom it should be paid, this debt will be paid to the mother of the child, since it was the mother who filed the claim for Child Support obligations. In fact, i am surprised why , to date, no criminal case has been initiated against the father. Since an article has been introduced in the criminal code of the russian federation, article 157 of the criminal code, which specifically provides for the initiation of a criminal case against a person who does not pay Child Support. Child maintenance. Vera, you didnt initiate criminal proceedings against sergeis relationship case . No, they didnt initiate a criminal case, the bailiffs never came to you, the bailiffs never looked for him, but thats what the bailiffs are. You came, as if you had found out that sergei and i were living together, as if, well, naturally he also received calls that he was there for forced labor, that just like that, sergei is now officially working, yes, he is working, he has a salary his piecework, as it were, well, how much does he earn, well, most of it turns out, well, what are they calculating from him, even he doesnt. Hes generally awarded 40 , which the executive the rest is calculated by the court, it was work there, that is, they take it from work and they take it from the bank, that is, they take 80 , what do you live on, we live on my salary, i work in a store as a cleaner, my salary is small. This is how it turns out for the three of us that we have a daughter together with him, she is 5 years old, masha, what happens, we live on this salary of mine, sergey, your daughter was officially recognized, no, it didnt work out for us, because, as it were, in terms of financial terms, it seems that it was not possible to formalize it, that is, i understand correctly, in the birth certificate of your daughter in the count the father, however, yes, because he. Was at work at that time, they didnt let him go from work, so, well, this is not the reason, the father himself must understand that there cant be anything more important than a child. How can you not come and deliver, and you, as a woman, had to influence this situation, i influenced, it was as if i insisted on it, he just had such a boss, thats all, there was no one to work at all, this was a serious that moment for an hour to come and fit in the situation, its just that when i gave birth and we observed ourselves in the hospital, how would we plan for what day, then at one point in the hospital they told me that it was urgently needed. To go and register the child, as if we were living in iskitim, i myself was registered in cherepanovo, i say that sergey went, that as if masha had to register this, he told the boss, thats how you want to say it, this, but i m not letting you go, that is, it turns out that faith, through the fault of your boss, your chosen one did not become his father daughters, yes, but in a day, in a week, we could somehow change the birth certificate, well, here we are going. That no matter how much we discuss this more than once in order to include it in the testimony of faith, you are not afraid that sooner or later sergei will turn around and leave you, he cares about your daughter, as at some point he forgot about his son, no, he he wont turn around, he wont leave, i know that for sure, he loves masha very much, he loves me, she chases him very much, and you didnt ask why he didnt challenge his paternity earlier, if already when the boy was 6 years old, he began to have such doubts and thoughts, his wife. Previous marriage, which seemed to be against it, so what about the fact that he seemed to suggest that dna testing be done, thats all, she seemed to be against it. What is her name . Marina. Marinas sister, im sure your partner doubted his relationship with his son only because of the huge debt for Child Support. Today she came to us with her nephew. In the studio natalya lanko and kirill chertsov. Natalya kirillov, hello, hello, hello, natalya, your sisters longtime exhusband i renounced my son, well, according to my sister, two years ago, when kirill was already 16 years old, sergei called and said that , apparently, he was scared of the large debt accumulated for alimony, he said that this was not my son. Kirill, how did you react to this statement . His father, its cold, it doesnt matter, that is, a man, well, i havent seen him practically for 10 years, well, for me hes just some kind of leftist person, i dont care what he thinks about me, just as it doesnt matter, this same person is yours official father, he did not participate in my upbringing in any way, that is, as far as i remember at a conscious age, i learned everything there myself, well, literally everything, so my uncle helped me there in some issues , to suggest something somewhere, to show, but basically i learned everything myself, that is, i didnt even talk to him i didnt communicate at all, well, years. Exactly five, that is , there was no connection for 5 years at all, none at all, before that it happened there, well, his mother, well , his grandmother called, there his sister congratulated him on his birthday, happy new year, everything, but he never, just like you do you think your father has reason to doubt his relationship with you, well, if he thinks so, then why not, i dont know whats in his head, so i think that he is my biological father, well, they didnt ask my mother then why is my father doubts . well, that s for sure, well, youre his child, thats for sure, that is , my mother says, there certainly couldnt have been anyone else, it couldnt have been, absolutely 100 . They just probably havent seen him for many years, but he s been around since he was 16. , he has all the facial features, its like i cant even see his facial features, so i dont think he looks like, kirill, who are you like . Similar . I think that he resembles his father, well, precisely in some basic facial features. Skulls, its strange to hear from vera that there is nothing in common between you, but in principle no, not from her, and you and vera dont have a very Good Relationship, we once had it when i was little, so vera called me, well, to my mother, she said, let kirill come and visit us there, well , then we had a Good Relationship until some point, when their daughter was born , they began to force me to communicate with their daughter, which i didnt need, but at least, if only because my father didnt. Want to communicate with me, and why should i want to communicate with his child, you were offended, naturally offended, and how did vera and your father react to this . Negatively, very strongly, there was a very big scandal on the phone, swearing, insults, everything was there, maybe it was the other way around, when you said, it really was from your side, you, when you heard negatively about why i need her threestory mats are also needed there. This situation, and we have no more there was a relationship, i dont want to contact either my father or his family, no way, well, for me there are people on the left, i believe, if your current partner, for example, leaves for another family and gives birth to a new child there, you will impose so that your daughter was friends with his new child, why impose, i wont consider it necessary, he will communicate himself and also yana, well, in this case, kirill did not consider it necessary to communicate, do you support . Yes, i fully support it, because i saw how he grew from childhood until today, which is really all my father didnt take any part in kirills life, practically none at all, to go for a walk, to go play football with him there, that didnt happen, and we lived not far from them in the neighboring area, he grew up before my eyes, i saw it all perfectly, what kind of attitude did seryozha have towards the child, although he. Really waited, there is such a twosided resentment here, two families, they are somehow against each other, and you can understand both kirill and faith, i understand, because if a person who with whom she lives, yes, sergei says that this is not my child, why, strictly speaking, should she not believe in this, on the one hand, on the other hand , i dont understand such men who first pay alimony, then dont pay, kirill, but do you have any good memories from childhood about your father, well thats the only thing i can remember, how we were there with. When i was four years old, we were walking in the park, well , thats all, more bad memories, yes, constant screams, a belt in the corner, well, at least, i remember, i also, probably about five years ago, i watched tv at night, my father apparently he didnt like something, he threw me off the sofa first, grabbed me by the hand, threw me onto another sofa, he said go to sleep, when your parents broke up, did your life get better, to some extent . Well, there wasnt this burden, but how old were you then . Eight, i think i remember, i came home from school there , left my things at home, went for a walk, i saw a car drive up to the house, my father, his father, came out and started taking things out of the house, literally everything was there, the computer, the tv, the sofa was even taken away, my mother and i slept there for the first week two on the floor, he argued, i already left you a lot, that is, the mezzanine of the old kitchen set, the stove for you. To my father, so that he says to come for me, as if i didnt take it, so i called him, he speaks in a Passenger Car the car might have a wall or a refrigerator, my mother seems to have her own furniture, he went to live with his parents and he really only has one computer, its not true, but its not true, there was a tv that they bought together at that time , it was very expensive. What difference does it make for what kind of work, but nevertheless he said, he i bought it myself personally and he took this computer, nevertheless, he bought it as a marriage partner, but the rest he said, i left everything, and well, i collected my things in a bag, thats all, if im not mistaken, its all on credit was bought, natalya, who generally brought money into the house, well, most often it was. Not even most often, but my sister, sergei, he didnt like to work, he didnt stay at one job for long, he liked to go for walks with friends, as a nurse, well , my sister brought money into the house, who grabbed any job, yes, after they they broke up, sergei somehow tried to help his son, no, thats it, he didnt participate in his life at all, she filed for alimony without divorcing him. That is, being married, the lack of money was so acutely felt, yes, of course, well , the child grows up in need, he needs to be fed, clothed, treated when he is sick, but at some point. Your sister still got divorced, officially they divorced in 2019, she filed for alimony after he left and did not help, she, if im not mistaken, filed for alimony in 2013, he filed for divorce in 2019, he filed once, not even your sister, but why didnt she do it, well, as she says, somehow she wasnt embarrassed by this stamp, but it still stands in her passport, and her new personal life she didnt want to arrange it, but she didnt arrange it. On her personal life, because she needed to get kirill on his feet. They divorced in nineteen. Vera, when you met, you became friends with sergei. We met in 15, well, we met for two or three months and decided to live together. That is, it turns out that you gave birth to a daughter from married man . Yes, he immediately told me that he was married, that he had a child, but they had not lived there together for four or five years. As if by argument, here it is. And in general, yes it works, it doesnt work, this is actually really not true, sergey works, when we met at that time, he worked, at the moment he works at a factory, as a cleaner, well, as if you say , he has some kind of piecework piecework salary, how much he will make, he will earn approximately , i say even 35,000, but he has 30 they take it away and leave five for him. This is how they calculate from him, well, it cant be the same, maybe, maybe you get what amount you received last time, 22 thousand, Something Like that, or 24, this is the last three or four months, before that they didnt receive anything, i have a question for you, what do you think is the probability that it was vera who turned the father against his son, i think that the probability is small, i think that he himself. Is the kind of father who adapts himself to the circumstances like this , as it is convenient for him, recognizes the child, does not wants to record himself as a child, absolutely slippery behaves through life in a way that is comfortable for him, i think that he internally has no doubt at all that he is the father of this child. Kirill, your father says that he has long wanted to undergo a genetic examination with you, but your mother refused him this. In our studio sergey. hello, sergey, how long has it been since youve seen your son . I last saw my son, probably in 2015 or sixteen, like this, well, its been quite a long time, why is that . Because i dont want to see him, i dont consider him one of mine child. Did you tell your son this to his face . Yes, i repeatedly told my exwife that he was not my child. And how does kirill feel about this . . I have no idea, i dont even want to communicate with him, because i dont consider him my child, but if you havent seen him sergey for 8 years, you will recognize him, no, i dont recognize him, take a closer look, that young man over there is looking at me for something, i dont know who he is, my name is kirill, chertsov sergeevich, im your son, well, i dont consider you my son, and why seryozh, thats because i dont i think you you probably remember me, i remember you, wait, kiril, give me. Ill ask, look me in the eyes, we were family friends, before you broke up with marino you considered him a son, now you say, you never considered him, before , yes, when we lived together, he seemed to consider him a son, not really me i read her son, as if he because there was a period of time, as if everything was fine, after, when i began to suspect that my wife was cheating on me. In 2000, the fourth year after my wedding, i was called up by the armed forces for advanced training, i left for retraining june 26, one day i came in the month of august, at the end of august, as if i found her with men, did we live at that time in the city of novosibirsk, in a hostel, that she flirted with men, after which we had a scandal, the next day i i got ready to go back to the military unit, i was returning from retraining at the end of september, she announced to me that i was pregnant for three weeks, i physically could not be with my ex wife at that moment in life, did you tell her about this . Yes, i told her about it, but i missed this moment, because i was still young, as if i didnt particularly understand what was happening, that is, you werent able to. Calculate right away, yes, well, i kind of thought, well, shell give birth and give birth, like ill educate there, well see, then well see it will happen, but they didnt get divorced, well, until they did, i thought about saving the family. After the child began to grow up, i began to notice that we had practically no similarities, when we were taken from the maternity hospital, they unwrapped the blanket, you yourself said that you look like me, children, when they are born, they are all the same, there you cant define it, its similar, its not similar, sergey, do you really think that you have nothing in common, no, i think that you have nothing in common, maybe you cant see well there, no, i think you, why are you like that you say, it feels as if you were tuned in from the outside, did you initially . They walked and said, im here, i dont even know where hes sitting, theres a young man here, your son, when we had a divorce, i suggested to her right after here, let me apply for a dna examination, and we ll decide, my child or not, she is for me i answered directly, i wont let you do this, like you lived for 14 years with this doubt in your head, i didnt communicate with him, i dont care about him, that he exists, that he doesnt exist, i have a little daughter, heres a copy i. This is my child, plus i had dna done at birth, everything was confirmed with her, you did a dna test with the child of faith, and we were offered to do a test right away in the hospital, initially we immediately had this all completely for all diseases for everything , why didnt you tell us about this, well, i thought that it doesnt matter what he said, they asked about kinship, he hesitates. For several years, no, i said, the only thing is that he will never doubt and will not go anywhere, well , of course, if you have the results of a dna test, you wont doubt it, i never doubted my daughter, because i know what it is my child, when we conceived a child, i asked for this child, and as if everything, it happened like that, but you never asked marina for a son, no, no, i never asked her for a son, but how did it happen then that you became father, well, because she registered it as me, and why then did i meet him at home . Because there is no way out, i was married to your mother at the moment of that period in my life, i got divorced, how long does it take to get a divorce when my daughter was born, i got divorced because your mother contradicted that and didnt want me to divorce her , she tried in every possible way to make sure that i didnt divorce her, whether a genetic examination will confirm the relationship between the official father and son, or whether marinas exhusband rightly accuses her of infidelity, well find out through. 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