Matt Dunstan loves to stay unshaven in-between Melony Brests' appearances. âThereâs a lot confusion around the differences between drag and transgender, and all of that,â Mr Dunstan said. âPeople say to me âwhatâs it like living like that during the dayâ, and I go âwell Iâm a bloke during the day and I grow a beard between showsâ. âI do it for purely entertainment purposes â as soon as I get home I canât wait to get out of it.â Mr Dunstan, 47, this year celebrates three decades as the divine Ms Brests and recalls vividly how they first hooked up.