Lindani Myeni's widow battles to make sense of his killing at hands of US police The 29-year-old former KwaZulu-Natal rugby player was shot dead by Hawaii police last week. Lindsay and Lindani Myeni. Lindani was shot and killed by Hawaii police in April 2021. Picture: Facebook/Lindsay Myeni one hour ago CAPE TOWN - The widow of slain Lindani Myeni said that she was still battling to make sense of what happened on the night that her husband was killed in Hawaii. The 29-year-old former KwaZulu-Natal rugby player was shot dead by police last week. Myeni was killed after he was apparently mistaken for a robber.