Jennifer Lopez And Ben Affleck Reportedly Went To Montana Together '[They] are enjoying each other's company right now.' Zach Harper, Hello! Updated May 11, 2021 J.Lo and Ben were each other’s dates at the 2003 Oscars, back when they were engaged. (Photo: Frank Trapper/Corbis via Getty Images) Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck jetted off to Montana together earlier this month, reports say. The former couple have been spending lots of time together following J.Lo’s split from ex-fiancé Alex Rodriguez in April. A source told E! News they headed to Montana alone on May 2 after they both appeared at the VAX LIVE concert. They were said to have been at Yellowstone Club for about a week.