Men married to military: The male spouse experience Photo By Janell Ford | (From L-R) Weed Army Community Hospital Commander, Col. Nancy Parson, husband, Darryl...... read moreread more Photo By Janell Ford | (From L-R) Weed Army Community Hospital Commander, Col. Nancy Parson, husband, Darryl Parson, Bryce Brown and wife, Maj. Susan Brown. Civilian male spouses may not feel the different "Mommy and Me-type" groups are all inclusive but group leaders say all are welcome. According to Military One Source, 47% of 70,000 women in the Army are married—the highest of all the services. Of that number, 36% of those marriages were dual military couples where both married parties were active-duty members of the Army.