>> he's one of the most generous and selfless people i've ever met. >> he impressed his teammates and coach. >> good football player, always quiet, always got a smile, never late, good worker, good kid, solid. >> go back to the handsome house in the rochester suburbs where charlie grew up in his teenage years. it's a place called pittsford, new york. and newspaper reporter john hand knows it well. >> it's a very nice community, very picturesque community. >> thick lawns, nice cars in the garage? >> lots of executives from kodak and xerox and lawyers. >> charlie was younger of two boys. his parents, born in china lived in canada before moving to upstate new york. his dad ran a tech business that thrived. the home radiated upper middle class comfort. his friend anna had been there on occasion. >> i went over to his house. i didn't know his parents very well. i talked to his mom a couple