>> she would have never left her dog. she would have never left her money. she would have called. >> according to friends, anna was trying to break away from charlie at the time of her disappearance. she was finally getting her life together, they said. she had just started a new job as a customer service representative and was looking for a new apartment. >> from my estimation, she was really trying to break up with him, but he kept luring her back. >> anna met charlie at grant city cars in 1994, where she worked as a driver and he as a mechanic. he told anna he had a son but said he was estranged from his wife. he was different from her bohemian boyfriends. >> she saw stability in him because from the outside he was a regular guy and seemed stable. >> this was san francisco. >> anna capalutti was anna's cousin and next door neighbor. >> the relationship was weird.