ohio couple together for 20 years. they finally decided to get married this month because husband john arthur is dying of lou gehrig's disease. the pattern had to travel to maryland to marry but came home to a fight the state not willing to recognize their vows until they fought and won recognition in ohio federal court. i spoke with jim earlier and asked him to take me through his legal roller coaster. >> this all happened after our marriage in maryland. when i first met with our attorney and he explained to me that when my husband job john passes away, his ohio death certificate would not list him as married and would not show me or list me as his spouse, it broke high heart. and, at that moment, i realized this isn't something i'm willing to stand for. this isn't something i think any