steve starts e-mailing the decoy and says, maybe i could give you your first -- and uses a graphic term for oral sex. he also sends kevin a link to gay pornographic websites. then he makes a date for sex with the decoy and comes on over. >> i'll be right back. hey. so you still ready to be my first? yeah? >> yeah. up to you. >> all right. >> no hot tub for you? >> nope. >> what's up? >> nothing. >> yeah? what are you here for? >> just to talk. >> and who were you going to talk to? >> see, i knew something was up. i saw all the cameras here. >> and why did you come over if you had a feeling something was up? >> i don't know. >> you talk about oral sex. you ask him a list of very personal questions about what he's done and where he is in his physical development. >> uh-huh. >> is that appropriate for a man your age to be asking those questions of a 13-year-old boy? >> no. all right. let's just do what we're gonna do. >> what do you mean? >> aren't you going to arrest me? >> i'm not gonna arrest you. >> then who are you? >> i'll get to that in a minute. i have a few more questions for you. you get into graphic detail about what you want to do with this boy sexually. >> because that's what he wanted