began in 1985 when his wife, dorothy, a respected preschool teacher, became seriously ill. >> we rushed her to the hospital hemorrhaging. they couldn't get the blood in to her faster than it was coming out. we almost lost her a couple of times. >> and what happened to your relationship at that time? >> well, i always loved her very much every single second, but, you know, sex was pretty much out of the question. and, you know, i needed my -- >> you needed to have sex with someone? >> yeah. >> and you're saying your wife was too sick to have sex? >> exactly, yeah. >> so you started to look elsewhere? >> yeah. >> john jamelske says in 1988, more than ten years before his wife died, he picked up a 14-year-old native-american girl while out cruising for sex. kirsten, who we met earlier. whether or not his wife ever knew may never be known.