assignments in asia, and nearly a dozen medals and letters of appreciation from the corps. he even found a bride on duty, a dancer from the philippines named amelia. >> he's very good-hearted man. very affectionate. all you're looking for a man was in him at that time. >> and you found it very easy to fall in love with him. >> i did. i fall in love with him and i marry him. >> together, they had three beautiful daughters. but three years before that trailer fire, a happy family portrait was beginning to disintegrate. the trouble began when the bennett family was transferred to a military base in okinawa, japan. former navy petty officer lynn brisco was arthur bennett's neighbor in okinawa and for a time his friend. >> we had similar interests, the possibility of a long-term friendship was there. >> but the friendship ended as quickly as it had begun, he says, when his 8-year-old daughter came to him with a disturbing story about a slumber party she attended at bennett's home.