i was a person with a damaged truth. so i know that. like i say, i lived with an alcoholic father.in i go to school knowing that the windows in my kitchen got kicked out last night, that we didn't have any utilities. and i am sitting next to a kid and i compare my reality with his social mask.yo that is what kids do. and as a result, you feel second-class and so you generate the results you think you deserve. >> harvey: you don't believe in victims. >> i don't. i don't. that doesn't mean that people can't transiently be preyed upon.th but i tell people that have been molested in their childhood, you have zero responsibility for that happening in your childhood. you have 100% responsibility for what you do about it as an adult. >> harvey: we are the same age. and i have a fear that if i stop working, i'm going to drop dead. do you have a fear like that?